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If being brave means acting even when you're afraid, I think there's definitely room to be proud when you go out to a social situation when that gives you anxiety.
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Yesterday I went to Last Man Standing. This is an action where people stand on a pole in the middle of a lake, to ask awareness for mental illnesses.
Going to new places and meeting new people scares me, but this time it went so well! Because there are more people who suffer the same. I had such a good time and we had so much fun!! https://www.doemeemetmind.nl/eveneme...-standing-2019 The site is in Dutch but I have translate the important info for you by Google translate: Quote:
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^ I'm so happy for you. That sounds like you had a lot of fun.
Kim, forgiveness isn't about whether anyone deserves it. (Again, according to me anyway.) It's about whether a person or an event has the power to weigh you down and keep you in the past. It's about choosing to move on inasmuch as that is in your power. You may feel that you don't deserve forgiveness. At that point, though, it's not about whether another person ought to forgive you. Because they may have or they haven't. But if you feel like you don't deserve it, it's about you needing to forgive yourself. We all do terrible things. And we can't necessarily ever make up for them either. But you can choose to forgive your past self for reacting in a way you wish she hadn't. __________________
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I hate knowing about meetings at work I have to have about my job descriptions where I need to drag a union rep with me! Triggers me back when a bully boss in 2016 made me go to an HR meeting with a union rep about the same sort of thing...
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Good on you for developing coping techniques for those annoying work situations none of us can avoid.
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That makes really good sense to me, Sunny. That helps.
Leanne, I'm glad you've found some ways to cope, too. Sunny, who are you doing? __________________
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I'm doing okay, Kim.
I sorta screwed myself up, physically, and it's been a little hard to concentrate and stay focused, which tends to give me anxiety, because there's so much to do. But I'm trying to breathe through it. __________________
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I'm sorry to hear that, Sunny I hope things improve soon.
I'm trying to not feel anxious about the change of leadership in the Conservative party, as both candidates are making promises they can't possibly enact, and are living in some kind of cloud cuckoo land. In a way I'm glad I'm not a member, and don't have the the prospect of having to choose one of them. Anyway, trying to ignore the whole thing.... What was the conclusion of the meeting, Leanne? Did the Union rep back you up? __________________
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Yeah, she backed me up, but my co-worker indicated at the end that if she notices something that needs to be done she will do it, which to me sounds like she will do things in my job description still if I can’t get everything done in one day in a week. I think it’s no win. If no job postings come up to replace it, I think I can manage another year but she is someone I cannot work with long term.
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Yeesh. Sounds to me like nobody can win in that situation.
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I'm just sitting here watching most of the US ignore/not notice, that this country is about 2 steps from becoming a dictatorship. I'm wondering how people could not notice-or care. It's going to be too late by the time they know. His family will be in the line of succession, so, yay for them?
Glad I'm getting up there in years, because I don't want to live in that kind of country. I am completely panicked though. Waiting for migrants and minorities to start coming up mysteriously missing. Then the old and sick. Makes me want to throw up with anxiety. Sunny, Claire, and Leanne, I hope things are settling down for you. Claire, I completely get that. Leanne, are you glad it's done for now, and you can figure out how to deal with it more when next year comes around? Sunny, are you physically feeling better? __________________
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Physically, I'm doing as good as can be in this humid heat. Funny how there isn't room for much else when the mind is focused on... trying to focus.
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Kim, I’m glad I get a two month break to prepare myself... I mean I guess I know what to expect from her this year rather than last fall, finding out what I’ve walked into.
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You also have two months to regroup, relax and generally rejuvenate your energy.
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