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Now I do not have social life either. I communicate at work because I either need to train someone or to communicate to someone on what's going on. But this is not social interaction, this is work. Whenever I can, I put on my headphones and pretend that no one is in the office . Outside of work I still do not interact with people nor I go to places. I chat with my best friend and we meet from time to time, but that's it. I spend most of my weekends alone. So I guess I look more Extrovert at work because of the way I conduct myself, but deep down I am very strong Introvert. Quite frankly people see me playing a role at work. Most of them have not seen the real me and would never see it. I look sociable and warm and nice and I am not any of that . It's a bit sad that no one actually knows the real me. To some extent my mother knows me, but even she does not see my internal process fully. Even my best friend does not know how I process information and what I am inside. I guess this is the price you pay when you are Introvert. I do not open up to people because I know that most of them cannot handle me anyway. __________________
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All adults are now like "I wish I can be a kid again". I don't. I love my adult life where I can live alone, be independent, make my own decisions and basically carve my own destiny. I have always lived for this freedom. I do not miss my childhood to be honest. I do not even remember most of it. __________________
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Society accepts people based on majority of types. As women are mostly SF types, society sees this as a normal woman personality traits. Yes we are exceptions, but this does not mean that stereotypes do not exist. __________________
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However, here's an example of the gender not being in play... my friend Jill who is a doctor hung out with friends and even met her husband in medical school. They hung out with a group of friends. Two guys in particular were quiet and always had their heads in books. They'd go out and the two guys who were quiet and shy were the ones that would get looks and comments that they were "Geeky" and "scared of their own shadow." They were absolutely the ones that were singled out as weird, the guys, because they were shy and introverted. They were known as the shy geeks without a personality. |
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This is part of the personality theory. I agree with you that we should not base everything on TV because well they do not show everything. If you believe American TV you would think that all American women are blondes. We will have to agree to disagree. What I am saying here rings true for every NT woman out there though. NT women do not meet the expectations and as a result they quite often get treated as one of the guys because well they have more in common with men around them than women . Can they find men that will appreciate them? They can, but it's the minority. For most men NT women will be insensitive cold bitches. It is what it is. __________________
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Btw there is a theory that says that nerds and geeks are the least to miss their childhood. They are outcasted as different and weird in school so they quite often do not enjoy it. Once they become adults and they find these good jobs they get to enjoy life. Maybe there is some truth to this. __________________
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