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1. Decide that my environment plays a part. This in my head meant blaming my parents and family for this and I did not want to do that. I mean my parents love me. They did the best for me and I would feel a total jerk if I start blaming them for my issues. 2. Decide that my environment does not play a role. This meant in my head that there is something completely wrong with me. I did not like both options so decided to not explore too much and avoid the topic as much as possible. As it's not resolved fully obviously it sits in the back of my mind . Quote:
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You remember a former co-worker I have talked about that had issues with the HR because of their love triangle. Well sometimes she would tell me she could do this or that behind your back and I think that no matter how I try to explain to her that I don't want to focus on this might have stressed me a bit. I do believe that I can't nor I want to follow someone and obsess over whether they would sneak and play behind my back. That won't help me. My strategy is to surround myself with people that trust me. This way even if the HR does something I will have support behind my back. That for me is a better approach than thinking how she can screw me over. __________________
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You mentioned a coworker (female) on maternity leave was returning soon and you were interested in how she'd react to all of the changes... has she returned yet? |
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Checking out INFJ Boards
Man, is it refreshing to go there. It’s frustrating at times having the rarest personality type on the planet. It’s not even close, INFJ is RARE. So to frequent these forums is almost therapeutic because these people speak my same language. Anyway, I’ve struggled with something for several years now. I’ve always wondered if I am so intuitive, how on earth did I not pick up on those two really terrible people in my past. Like, why would I have not realized they had some darkness and I should have stayed away? There is an entire forum practically on this very question. It’s now very clear why this was the case. Apparently TONS of INFJs endure this. There is an easy answer as to why this takes place. The reason why we end up enduring terrible relationships is because we’re not picking up on their present traits... we’re picking up on their potential and what they could be... not what they are at the moment. Man, I can’t tell you how much sense this makes. All the more it describes the INFJ and how we tick. Most importantly, I feel like less of a fool for allowing those two morons to take up so much of my time in the past. My family and friends despised these two people. I remember thinking at the time it was all about potential and what I was seeing past the present. I didn’t put it into those words but now I know that’s precisely what was happening. It’s interesting. That said, now that I can read the future much better I can safely say both of these idiots have not lived up to their potential. They are the same people that I knew, unfortunately and I feel sorry for the people that are wrapped up into their lives. They are not happy. They are stuck like I once was. |
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Interesting link about INXX types - https://www.quora.com/How-would-you-...INFP-INTJ-INFJ.
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Interesting paper on collective conscious and dissociative identity disorder - https://blogs.scientificamerican.com...nd-everything/
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In my email boxes, both personal and work, I've received this article from: 1. Clinical Research Department of Psychology U of M 2. Two coworkers 3. Three cousins 4. One Aunt 5. Two Cleveland friends It's a good one. |
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So I took this twice, two different tests. First test I got Type 2. Second test I got Type 4. I think I’m on the right track because out of all the types, Type 4 has the largest % of INFJs followed by Type 2 as the second largest % of INFJs. Confirms my INFJ all the more (not that I needed confirmation). Now I want to figure out if I’m Type 2 or 4. |
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I weighed myself this morning and in two months I've lost 30 Lbs. I still have a long way to go, but I'm motivated and committed to losing weight and getting back in shape. The injection I got in my arthritic shoulder has helped and I'm doing upper and lower body strength training as well as cardio every night. I do upper body strength training Tuesdays, Thursdays and Saturdays, and lower body strength training on Mondays, Wednesdays, and Fridays. I've also cut out junk food and I'm eating healthier. I get discouraged sometimes because I have such a long way to go but at least I've started.
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