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I read this on Personality Hacker... it's regarding romantic relationships for INTJ and INFJ but friendship can apply too and covers what we're discussing too... it basically states you are better at the logic stuff and I'm better at the social/audience stuff, haha: Quote:
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As promised this is excerpt about the brain working for Introverted Intuitives:
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I thought that it's better to continue our talk about Dopamine and Extroverts here. An interesting article about it - https://www.quietrev.com/why-introve...t-the-science/.
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^^^^^ Really interesting stuff! I know all about Dopamine and the Introvert/Extrovert connection. I studied this extensively in college for both degrees. Personality Type stuff is brand new for me. Really, really interesting! I am going to take my time and read the links you supplied. Thanks!
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Such an INFJ thing to say, the wording is awesome, lol. It's amazing to me that Rowling has been my hero for years and it's because I could always relate to her, feel the same things, etc. Now I know it was due to having the same personality type, along with just loving her mind in general:
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Btw that reminds me do you want to start trying to type the Resident characters? It would take some time for sure .
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This week sucks for me.
1. Anna's graduation is Friday/Saturday. 2. I have clients from Chicago coming to the University. Last minute decision. 3. Three friends/two cousins from Cleveland are coming tomorrow so they can attend Anna's graduation. = insane week. Next week starting would be much better if it works for you. |
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Then at elementary school I have had cases where boys would hit me or try to hit me and let me tell you that they would get it back from me. I was not one to back down. I have never done serious damage, but I was not also the one to cry. I have never even told my parents and I was like 3/4th grade. I would just find a way to fight back. I have not had clear physical damage either. I would get a fist in my stomach like that and I will just push back. I have even thrown rocks at a person and they were like "You could have hit me in the head". I told them you started the fight first so you had it coming. I won't sit back and let you hurt me. If you try to attack me be prepared for everything. This is why I know that I could defend myself with full blown anger/rage. I did not hurt them as I was not good aim. But trust me when this happened I had no control or what's so ever. The anger overpowered me fully and the only thing I was thinking about was fighting back. My tantrums and bursts of anger continued until age of 15/16. It was really bad because I had conscious enough to realize that first this way I hurt my parents, second I look completely insane. So I just decided to employ strategy where I would release my anger by being alone and use some physical activity to let it out. My mother had hard time accepting that in such situations I want to be alone. She thought that if she could talk to me I would get better, but this did not work for me because in my anger I would hurt her with words. I am not physically aggressive, but I could have pretty aggressive talking style. I am not aware of my other emotions so I don't know if I control them or not. I seriously could be the nicest person out there, but I could also be scary. If someone crosses a line or pisses me off I really start hitting pretty aggressively. I would just purely humiliate said person. I would throw a bunch of words really quickly giving them no opportunity to even comprehend what I have said. Then I would attack every statement coming from them. I am not fun to be around when I am pissed. This is why I prefer to be alone, to sort out my anger and then I am nice as cucumber again. I easily get angered and I easily move on with my anger because I let it out on my own and then decide on how to proceed to solve the situation that angered me. __________________
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It also seems like quite often it was a situational thing for you... being provoked at school, for example. But then again, you also had some anger stuff way earlier on too. I don't really know about putting a label on it... I mean, there's plenty of things but it would have to be digging deeper into your history to sort this out. It could be Intermittent explosive disorder, a form of BPD, maybe Bipolar, and a few other things. When you were seeing the therapist in the past, did you explore this at all? |
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I don't think that it's their fault, nor I think that it was something serious. I think that the fact that I was picking up on that stuff and could grasp what was going on did affect me in a way because I knew for some reason what was going on, but I was not mature enough (because of my age) to know how to handle the stuff I knew. I remember that I would see my mother crying after fights with my dad I would just go to her, hug her and tell her that if she wants to leave my dad I will support her. I was 6 at that time. I don't think that usually 6 years old kids do stuff like that. Sometimes I feel like I experienced some issues just because I was not at always at the normal maturity level for my age. For some stuff I was normal, for others I was a bit advanced and did not know what to do with this or how to express it. I remember that I also had fears about almost everything. Like it was not normal for my age to be that afraid of stuff. It's why I never actually hurt myself seriously as a kid because I would just know that getting high is a risk for me to fall down and it was something I did not want to happen to me. My father definitely believed that I had a lot more fears than normal and that this fear caused delay in me learning how to walk. It's like I was afraid to do it. Quote:
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