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As far as the way Ephram handled Kyle when there was a possibility that he was gay...yes, Ephram acted meddlesome...but I don't believe he was bordering on homophobia. Ephram considered himself a parent to Kyle and he acted how most parents would act in these circumstances.....naturally there would be some incredulousness and doubt in the beginning..It is natural to want to protect your child from this....they know how society is. Ephram wanted Kyle to be happy...he had so many other negatives in his life...so Ephram tried to deny this. But...when he realized that Kyle really was gay....Ephram was truly wonderful with him. Last edited by everwoodfan52; 12-18-2011 at 12:55 PM |
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I loved Ephram. I always have since day one. My friend loves ephram too. and my friend does not like harold either.
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Yeah, I agree with you completely on Ephram and his views on Kyle's sexuality, Betty. I never saw that as juvenile either, I saw it as realistic. The parent comment is bang on! Very well said.
I really liked that Ephram took a small journey in that episode, trying to grasp what he thought about Kyle being gay. It was less about Ephram not wanting Kyle to be gay or trying to prove that he's not, and more about him not really understanding that someone that young can be gay. But when he understood it, when he got his thoughts together, he accepted it fully and completely. I thought that was a lovely episode for S4 Ephram, showing him going through that journey from confusion to understanding to acceptance. I'm curious to know what you thought of that, Lemony, if you still think that was unlikable or how you saw it. I've always saw Ephram in that episode that way, but you have already opened up my eyes to seeing things on some shows a different way, so, yeah, how did you view his actions and thoughts in that episode? The Reid thing, though, I'll agree on fully. Not his best moment. He wasn't perfect in S4, but I think he was at his best. But another instance of him acting selfish was when he first came back to town, he still had an attitude towards Andy. It took him some time to become the Ephram I was proud to see, as he was an ass for an episode or two after he came back too! __________________
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You guys have absolutely no idea how relieved I am. I really thought there was just something there that I was not seeing.
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So, in an indirect way, it's a sort of homophobic statement to make that someone can be too young to be gay and yet not too young to be straight. It seems to indicate that a gay orientation is so abnormal that it can't even be viewed in the same developmental light as a straight orientation or something...I don't even know. I know Ephram did not deliberately mean it in a homophobic way though, but if he truly thought that gay and straight kids were equal, he probably wouldn't have even subconsciously maintained such a divisive belief. Quote:
He was definitely meddling in his personal business way too much (especially because he is not Kyle's dad, no matter how much he felt like it), and he was probably making him feel like being gay was wrong, as he tried to force him to go to the dance with that girl a lot of times despite his protestations. Trying to deny that someone is gay or trying to force them into an opposite-sex situation to be "normal" is hurtful and frustrating. I know that Ephram was trying to protect Kyle from society, and I'm not saying that he had ill intentions or anything like that, but he could have handled it in a more mature, understanding, and supportive way from the start (rather than only at the end). And yes, many parents make the same mistake, I agree, but it doesn't make it less of a mistake. __________________
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I did like Reid's response (he did something!) about how it wasn't too young at all, and I thought that got the ball rolling in Ephram's mind that this is something he's going to have to rethink and he did. I guess I think that it was new for Ephram, which is something I like so much about the episode because it takes him out of his comfort zone and gets him to reevaluate his thought process and he handles it well at a certain point. As far as the girl, I don't think sexuality and forcing Kyle to not be gay came into Ephram's mind at all there. I agree with Betty that it had to do with him thinking Kyle should be more social...which is ironic since Ephram, even by S4, barely had any friends of his own to speak of. Did he try to get Kyle to interact with the girl once he realized that he may be gay? I can't remember. If so, I'd agree, that's a problem, but I do think the times he did try to have Kyle interact with her, he thought he was helping Kyle. The girl was cute. BUT. coupled with him thinking that someone couldn't know they were gay at a young age, it makes Ephram come off as naive, so I completely see how you're getting that view. I guess I think Ephram saw them as separate events, but it's a little ambiguous. __________________
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That's also what I liked about him more in S4, by the way. Those talks with Andy allowed Ephram to gather his thoughts before taking action more often. I think him realizing that he needed to sit down and think things through with someone else was a sign that he was going to grow up into someone pretty cool. Hmm, and I just skimmed through the episode and you're right, Lemony. Ephram does push for Kyle to go the dance after he had the conversation with Reid about the possibility of Kyle being gay!! I had that all wrong. He does push Kyle to do so under the pretenses of him being more social, but...hmm...yeah, Ephram, boy, that does not look good at all. Eesh. Well, it looks like Snap Judgement Ephram DID go to see him after all. In every case that that Ephram comes out, it's Ephram at his very worst just like it is there with him pushing Kyle to go to the dance when he was thinking about Kyle being gay. __________________
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Later, when Reid speculated that Kyle may be gay, Ephram reacted understandably. He wasn't sure of this...he wanted to protect kyle. He didn't present any of these doubts to Kyle...that would have been a mistake. Instead, when Ephram spoke to Kyle and got kyle to admit that he was gay, now he knew that Kyle was gay...and he was so supportive. His words were perfect. I can't fault Ephram at all for any of his actions. Quote:
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