[sunnykerr]

http://www.fanforum.com/f144/kim-rav...need-63174955/ <----- updated

Honestly, I could do without being responsible for taking out the garbage.

After being the only one to do it for however many years...

It beats keeping it inside, obviously.

But I don't even feel relief/accomplishment when it's out.

[There You'll Be]

Ah, I understand that.

It's like the cooking and chores I used to have to do, years ago.

I still hate to do those things.

So I can totally see why you're over it.

[sunnykerr]

I don't really hate it, though.

I don't love it.

But I'm just sort of neutral about it.

I'm over it, but it has to be done.

[There You'll Be]

Yeah, that makes sense.

Neutral is a good way to put that.

I get that way, too.

[sunnykerr]

I'm glad that made sense.

[There You'll Be]

I know how that goes.

Yes, it made perfect sense to me.

[sunnykerr]

I spend a lot of my life in neutral, so to me it's just not any different, you know?

[sunnykerr]

http://www.fanforum.com/f144/anthony...9%A5-63175206/ <------- updated

[There You'll Be]

I always spend my life from one extreme to the other.

Occasionally on neutral ,but rarely.

It's good that works for you-since you spend most of your life that way.

[sunnykerr]

That's basically what bipolar is, isn't it? One extreme or the other?

At least, that's what I thought it is.

I don't know if being mostly neutral works for me.

I just know it's where I'm most comfortable and where I am most often.

I get the feeling that I should try to go out of my comfort zone more often.

We all have our coping mechanisms, huh?

[There You'll Be]

Yeah, that is true.

I never thought of that.

Yes we do.

We all do what is workable for ourselves.

I'd like to spend more time in neutral.

[sunnykerr]

And I'd like to feel more joy.

The grass is always greener, right?

[There You'll Be]

It always is.

Funny how that works.

[sunnykerr]

It is.

Good thing I'm basically a creature of comfort.

[There You'll Be]

I am too, so that makes sense for both of us.