[Tina]

That's good Ju

[Sweet Embrace]

Spent the weekend with the boyfriend. Had dinner and cuddles on Friday and then we had a cuddle date today (met my parents too). I made him breakfast I asked him if he wanted to go anywhere, and he said "just want to be with you." On friday when cuddling he almost fell off the bed so i went "I saved you." and pulled him back up and he smiled and went "in more ways than one."

[sourburst]

This goes out to the ladies mostly, but also wouldn't mind male feedback if it's there.

So I've been dating a guy (my second boyfriend after a 4 year relationship) and my main problem is: he's talking about sex with an ex. I don't do it, because I know it's wrong. It's something you may discuss with a close friend. But both of us quite enjoy sex and he's that comfortable he's now talking about hot tub sex he had with an ex or shower sex and it completely grosses me out and in short, it's putting me off.

I'm frequently reminded that he's much more experienced (with three serious exs and two one night stands) whereas I've had the one relationship. I really can't build the bridge to get over it, ex talk is bad enough without know how good the sex 0"positions were.

Am I alone in being bothered by this girls? What should I do? And boys why might he be doing this?

I asked him to stop because it grosses me out and he got a tad defensive.

Slightly awks to add at the end of this but please may I be added to the op?

[Aurora Cormier]

Sure, I'll add you


About your boyfriend...I don't quite know what to say, except that he's being extremely inappropriate, in my opinion


Thanks Tina and Theresa

Do you feel better about it all?

Much better, thanks He made an appointment with my shrink the next day and is getting treatment now. He couldn't go on losing his temper that way all the time.

[Tina]

I sent you a PM, Jade.

I agree Ju... men...

Sounds sweet Theresa.

[sourburst]

Thanks for the advice both of you

[Sweet Embrace]

Jade, it is very inappropriate and it would make me uncomfortable. I hope you guys can talk about it and you can tell him its something you wouldn't like to hear about.

[Aurora Cormier]

I had a quiet weekend with my boyfriend, just staying in and watching OITNB

A pic from our trip together

[Sunrise at Midnight]

Talking about sex with past partners is a big don't, unless, one of you ask a question about it. That's just ick...


Saw this thought it was great!

[Aurora Cormier]

Very true

[sourburst]

That photo is lively!

I also really love that quote

[Aurora Cormier]

Thanks

[Sweet Embrace]

We had the most amazing weekend together and he said he'd text me as soon as he got home. He didn't. I text him, asked him if he got home safe and he said he did, sorry he didnt tell me. I havent heard from him since. He's had phone issues before so i wonder if hes having problems because he hasnt viewed his whatsapp messages which is unlike him and the phone calls go straight to voicemail. Im worried but I hope something isnt up.

[Aurora Cormier]

Have you been able to talk to him?

[Sweet Embrace]

Nope, still nothing. I reckon if he's getting it fixed he won't get it fixed before the weekend as hes working in office all week...