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Agreed. Starless Night 20 thanks so much for sharing.
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I'm sorry but I just don't buy the whole "you're born gay" theory. You can throw all the stats and studies at me but I'm not going to cave. Babies don't know anything about their sexual orientation. They don't even know what straight and gay are when they're babies.
Like I said before, I am entitled to my opinion because of the ACLU and the first amendment. I just find it funny how I'm so wrong and deemed a bigot because I believe homosexuality is unnatural and wrong because of my religious beliefs. However, you posters are allowed to tell me that I'm wrong and don't even let me have my opinion. I guess I'm a bigot because I believe cheating on your spouse is wrong since the Bible clearly says it's wrong. Right? |
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Nobody called you a bigot or alluded to that.
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Jacob, no one has called you a bigot. Most posters have disagreed with your opinion and have given their reasons why. No one is saying you cannot have or even voice your opinion. If you feel like you've been wronged, please PM me or one of the other mods and we will see what we can do.
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Wow - Starless Night 20, thank you so much for sharing your story with us. Your mother is incredibly brave and so lucky to have a daughter who supports her in something huge like that.
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Second, where were we twenty years ago? Oh yeah. The "gay movement" wasn't truly born until 1969, almost thirty eight years ago. That's where we were. Before that? We were stuffed in the back with the boxes and the winter coats, faking it day-by-day so we wouldn't get assaulted or killed and our families wouldn't be harassed. There have always been gays adopting. There has always been gay marriage. It just hasn't involved OTHER gay people because the ones who came before us spent their whole lives sucking themselves into an image that didn't fit so they wouldn't be harmed physically or emotionally. Quote:
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Oops. Double post.
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Gay adoption law: An opposing view
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I've said it many times before, what is so great about having a mother and a father? I was raised by just my mother for most of my life because my father was in and out of it due to his alcoholism. I turned out just fine. If a gay couple can pass the checks and can give a child a loving, stable home, than what's so wrong about letting them?
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Being straight is a social norm and is accepted. I can't give you exact date and exact place when I realized when I was straight but I wasn't born straight. When I was say under ten, I was not attracted to girls or boys. I might sound like an idiot but I think that puberty, how you're raised and possibly peer pressue are factors of what determines if a person is gay or straight. I didn't know that being straight was a crime.
LAMO@no one's ever called me a biggot. Like I said before, the majority of kids would agree that if they saw two men or two women kissing each other they would say that's weird or "yuck". Children are innocent and I hate to break it to you but homosexuality isn't exactly an innocent thing. Just my opinion. Don't sue me for it. How much would you like to bet on that? Answer this for me and I might cave. Who are the mother and father in a gay marriage? I'd like to know that. Gay marriage to me just seems somewhat dishonest especially if there are adopted children because the roles are not natural. I know that sounds mean but it's true. A gay couple cannot consist of a man and a woman. It's impossible. Another thing that is impossible for a man and a man to have a baby and a woman and a woman have a baby. Who is mommy and daddy to the kids in a gay family? |
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Starless Night 20 Thank you so much for sharing that.
Jacob, for the most part being gay is also quite accepted. And I can't say that you've never been called a biggot, but you certainly haven't been called that here. We respect your right to have your opinion. But, this being a discussion board and all, we will discuss the parts that we don't agree with. Just like you discuss the parts you don't agree with when somebody else says something. Can't speak for the majority of kids, but I do know that, when I was a kid, and when my brothers were kids, when my cousins were kids, and when my friends were kids... when we saw two adults kissing, it didn't really matter whether it was a heterosexual couple or a gay couple. It was ewww all the same. That's because kids, as you said yourself, aren't attracted to any gender yet. Kissing is gross because boys have cooties and girls are weird (or whatever) when you're at that age. It's the normal order of things. Sex of any kind isn't exactly an innocent thing. Being innocent is not the goal here. Being respectful and loving is. At least for me. Innocence is all good, but it goes away sooner or later for everyone. The key is to protect it while you can and also prepare the way for when it goes away, making sure every kid has as smooth a transition as possible. Again, at least for me. Obviously kids with gay parents (unless they were born or adopted while their parent was living a heterosexual life) have either no father or no mother. Who cares? Plenty of perfectly fine individuals were raised with only one parent. __________________
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Innocence is a good thing. And it's a shame that kids nowadays lose theirs too early.
Of course, being is widely accepted. It is funny how some Americans believe that homosexuals suffer so much when in reality they have pretty good in America compared to other countries. In some countries, gays can be killed for being gay and/or have limbs cut off. However, being gay is still somewhat of a deviant behavior. But like I said before, if you want to be gay then be gay. People can be gay, straight, or bisexual because they have free will and it's their choice to be what they want to be. However, with all choices come consequences. |
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[Jacob1983;141QUOTE=56512]Innocence is a good thing. And it's a shame that kids nowadays lose theirs too early.[/QUOTE]
Oh, yes. I'm 22 and I think I'm much more innocent than a lot of kids half my age, sadly. [Jacob1983;141QUOTE=56512]Of course, being is widely accepted. It is funny how some Americans believe that homosexuals suffer so much when in reality they have pretty good in America compared to other countries. In some countries, gays can be killed for being gay and/or have limbs cut off. [/QUOTE] I don't know if being gay is accepted 100% anywhere in the world, even America. I mean, people are polite and whatnot but that doesn't mean everyone is cool with it and accepts it. Look at it this way, men and women are still being killed just because they are gay - in America and in other countries. __________________
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