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I got back in time to ring in the New Year with her. I get sad sometimes because the closest thing I have to friends down here are my loudmouth drunken neighbors. I don't know what I'd do if I didn't have Teresa and this board. __________________
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I realized this just when we were reaching M's station to leave the tram. So he immediately told me you just realized this on time (implying most probably the fact that he was supposed to get off), then he gave me money no questions asked. The other guy did not even try to offer me something. M took the lead and basically showed that he would take care of this. Because of this he missed his station. I told him that it's his station and he was like I know and still did nothing. Now it's not a problem for him to get off on the next station, but it was also perfectly OK to tell the other guy that he has to leave and ask him to lend me the money. It's not like there was no one else that could have helped me. He just wanted to be the person to do it. Quote:
However to sum up those are the reasons: 1. The team had to follow different process of working. A new one that relied on lots of meetings. M hates meetings. In his eyes they slow him down. He is the type of person to say "Let's finish the meeting and start working". 2. The process relied on twisted team work. Basically every task had to be split in smaller tasks that had to be handled between 4-5 people. M hates that. He wants to be able to work independently. 3. Due to the twisted team work everyone in the team was supposed to be able to do everything. M had no issues with writing code, but he had issues when they asked him to be only tester for 2 weeks. He has no interest to be tester. 4. Then on top of that they decided that he will do the presentation demo. Every 2 week there is a meeting with the stakeholders where someone has to present everything they accomplished in those two weeks. It's in English. This was the last straw for him. 5. The team was slow and inefficient. He hates to work with slow people. 6. The French would boss him around. Every time he wanted to share something he knew about the project, they would ignore him and then waste his time in 30 minutes discussion in a meeting. 7. Again M has problems with authority. He does not like when incompetent people boss him around and he did not think that they are competent. 8. On top of that the boss wanted M to fight his battles and argue with the French for stuff M does not believe in. And then let's add to this other issues he had like: 1. The jerk trying to boss him around 2. The boss trying to boss him around 3. Having to deal with specific issues where he knows what is the core problem but the boss and the jerk does not allow him to fix the core problem. They actually ignore his insights and tell him that he is wrong. 4. The others in the team were also slow and he did not feel like being the only one that does the work. So is that enough for you ? Quote:
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Thanks Koni! I appreciate it!
It's really cold here right now (for here anyway) It's 30 Degrees F! That's very unusual for here. The houses here really aren't built for the cold, so some houses get burst pipes in weather like this. __________________
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I have never gotten along with hard stuff. I remember one time in college I was drinking a screwdriver which is orange juice and vodka. The drink tastes so good obviously due to the orange juice. Well, I drank way too much without even realizing it until it was too late. I was so inexperienced and just stupid this one night. I got so drunk and really sick. I was hugging the toilet hours later and felt like I had the flu for two days. It was awful. That was the one and only time I've ever had hard stuff, let alone gotten really drunk for that matter. Awful experience. Quote:
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She became more assertive when she officially moved out after graduating from college and just had to be independent and do things on her own. She bought a condo with a good friend, that was the first place she lived on her own. During this time she became more assertive. However the second time period she really became assertive was when she was pregnant with Anna so basically when she became a mother. When she had children, being assertive just came very naturally for her. Quote:
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He also censors himself around me more. He could be quite blunt and argumentative. With me he does not do that. For example I told him that I have to find someone to install Windows on the laptop. He was surprised that I need someone else to do it and I told him that I have never installed Windows on a computer and I prefer if someone else does it. He was like "OK, if that is how you prefer it". For any other co-worker he would have proceeded to explain how this is simple, how we should be able to do it etc. With me he just accepts it and moves on the next topic. Quote:
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For example he likes a lot how a newcomer performs in the team. However he is quite shy guy and prefers to work alone. He would always assign to himself some really difficult bugs and it would take him say a week to solve them but that's normal as most people would not be able to fix the bugs at all, let alone by themselves. The boss however did not like how quiet and shy the guy was so he wanted to let go of him. M got frustrated with this. O had to help M's case and argue with the boss that they need to keep the guy around. Another guy is performing also really good. He is the same position as O, M and P, but he gets paid more. M knows this and does not care. However he wanted for the company to raise this guy's salary as he is performing really good in just his first months. The boss refused to do it and specifically lowered scores that M and another guy did for this guy. That bothers him and is normal. We now have some really good guys in the team that you could rely on but the boss and the jerk do not want to admit this and basically reward those guys properly because of other personal reasons that we find stupid. One because he was too shy and quiet. The other because had the audacity to negotiate and get more money out of them when they hired him. Quote:
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It was like that for us last year. We had unusual low temperatures as well as unusual snow. At least compared to the last 5/6 years. I hope that it won't get that bad for us this year. Fingers crossed that soon this would end for you as well! __________________
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I think the balance and non-traditional gender roles have helped Anna and Sara significantly with their confidence and what they even search for in a guy too. They do not want a traditional relationship in the least, they are seeking an equal partnership. They are definitely looking for that unique guy that cooks, cleans, and isn't afraid to show emotions as well. It's definitely a good thing that they refuse to settle since they understand there are guys out there like their father and Grandfather that will see an equal partnership and will cook them dinner, help them with the house, etc. |
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Again feel free to tell me that I am way off base, but I feel that Kris and Scot have this equal relationship that goes beyond the stereotypes and the genders. It's more about being in tune and synchronized, completing each other and maybe even helping each other. And that is great. Not a lot of people have the luck to be part of such relationship. At least this is the kind of relationship I would want for myself (if any). It explains why I prefer to be alone than not having such dynamic. Quote:
I am from the generation that questions the traditions and sets up the ground work for the new generation. I am from the generation that fights for the change. The new generation is the one that gets to experience the change. I have known since long time my spiritual purpose on Earth. I know that it sounds convoluted, weird and maybe even arrogant, but I just feel it. The same I feel their role here. Their role is to live in this new world where the stereotypes are changing. They are here to live in equal man/woman relationship where the roles are not gender defined, but based on mutual understanding, agreement and sometimes even based on free time. __________________
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And this the purpose of the Indigo Children - https://innerself.com/content/person...l-mission.html. This is another link about their purpose - Indigo Children are Not Here to Challenge us, but to Teach us. And another link - https://www.bibliotecapleyades.net/c...a_indigo30.htm __________________
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