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Social Issues in Media Discussion Thread #1
General Discussion: Although The Vampire Diaries is the main focus, it is a general thread so other shows can be discussed or referenced in comparison to The Vampire Diaries. This is really a thread open to any discussion about social issues in the entertainment industry. Topics: This is a discussion thread so topics that are considered taboo will be discussed here. These can include but are not limited to: 1. Racism 2. Misogyny 3. Sexism 4. Violence against Women 5. Rape . Rules and Guidelines: 1. Do not make this a thread to debate on the differences between Stefan vs Damon. 2. Please attack the argument, not the poster. If you disagree then combat logic with logic, but not petty words. 3. Do not troll or disrupt the thread because you did not appreciate what was implied about a favourite character of yours. 4. Tread carefully when discussing any showrunner affiliated with a show being discussed. 5. Have Fun! __________________
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Damon has forced Elena against her will, using phrases such as "I will break your arm," which is extremely problematic because it is not any better but this time we are no longer acknowleding it. Their answer to Damon's sexism is to suggest that Elena "likes him the way he is." That she can't help staring at his lips and breathing heavily despite the fact that he controlled her and he killed her brother. This is the problematic aspect of their relationship. If they had addressed these issues between them in an acceptable way I would even somehow respect them more as a pairing because it would mean JP saw the problematic nature of her writing. __________________
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Thanks for the thread, Sharon.
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This is why the comparison of Damon to Spike bothers me So much. Thanks for making this thread. __________________
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I’ve seen rampant sexism on a lot of shows over the years, and it’s really evident on one show that I watch, Mad Men. Women are treated horribly on that show, and the men, for the most part, get away with their reprehensible behavior. It can be somewhat excused on Mad Men because the show is set in the 1960’s, but I’ve also seen it on shows like Gossip Girl, where the character of Chuck, who attempted to rape two of the female characters in the Pilot, and who prostituted his own girlfriend to get his hotel back was presented as a “misunderstood hero/bad boy who was redeemed by love” and was loved by a lot of female fans here. From what I’ve seen of Damon, he falls into the same mold as Chuck, and I really don’t like the idea of a brutal rapist or near rapist being presented as a romantic leading man on shows like these.
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Joss said that? I think that would've been a bad decision had he decided to include it. It didn't seem like they were there yet.
Jerry, I tried to watch Mad Men but gave up after S2. The thing with GG is the writers really stopped caring, watching the BTS thing before the finale you could see they all considered it a joke. JP, sadly, feels very passionate about her writing and really does believe it to be quality. |
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As shipper a part of me I admit I would have loved to see it and at least a kiss but like I said that's the shipper in me. I hope that makes sense. __________________
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Jerry, Damon can be classified as a rapist in my opinion because he has compelled Andie and Caroline not to fear being sexually intimidate with him. I liken that to date rape, where you take away a woman's agency to choose for herself, even if the act is not as physically brutal as a typical rape. This needs to be addressed but instead he is presented as a misunderstood hero, and that somehow takes away from the true potential of this storyline as Steph pointed out. If Julie Plec would shy away from portraying her "bad boys" as one dimensional boys suffering "man pain" then it would be more complex/dark rather than shown as something romantic. If Elena had her sense of agency, then Delena would be a lot different and less offensive.
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What Damon did with Caroline cannot be disputed as anything but rape. I am baffled when people try to argue this point. She was in bed screaming as he bit her neck. She continued to be his blood sack and lap dog after this. To imply she willingly slept with Damon during this time, is laughable. She was compelled to do what he wanted. There was actually a good post the other day by mysticdownfall that talked about Damon's rape and violence against women: Quote:
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posterity, I didn't see/answer your question in the other thread, so I'll answer it here:
I guess My Mad Fat Diary diary would be considered a groundbreaking show. You never see an overweight female lead. But aside from that, the show is really well-written, imo. One of the better teen shows I've seen. GG was a mess. Chuck is horrible. Meh. __________________
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Spike didn't expect anything from Buffy. He didn't even seek her out after he got his soul until he realized she needed help to fight a new evil. He tried to hide even getting his soul back and didn't tell Buffy until he broke down in the church and she sought him out. He didn't force her to listen or be there for him in any way. The sire bond is one of the most sick things I've ever seen and fans actually find it romantic. __________________
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Of all the "bad boys" Damon is surely the worst and the fact that he's so worshipped by some fans make me question the intelligence of the general viewers.
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What I also don’t like on shows like these is that the writers will excuse the behavior of the male Anti-Hero by giving them a “tortured background” like Chuck’s horrible treatment by his father and his being led to believe that his mother died having him, only to find out that his mother had abandoned him, and Don Draper on Mad Men having a prostitute for a mother who did die having him and being treated like a pariah by his father to the point where he assumed another man’s identity to make a fresh start and get out of combat in Korea. To me, having a bad childhood doesn’t excuse anyone for treating women like chattel, but a lot of female fans seem to swoon over these “misunderstood bad boys.”
What really gets me is that a lot of these shows are helmed by women, and it appalls me that a woman would depict other women in such a demeaning and sexist way. __________________
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I guess I should have just said rape because it is what it is. __________________
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