I know the news of WA and OF wedding is disappointing....but we gotta roll with the punches. If it's ever discouraging take a break or don't look at the fandom brawling. Keep your expectations low to avoid being disappointed.

All the superheros gather for WestAllen's wedding. We'll get to see the wedding planning, the sentimental wedding stuff, Iris walking down the isle etc, when the villains from Earth X crash the ceremony. The team fights to save the day. Stein dies. Westallen and OF realize that life is too short decide to do a spur of the moment ceremony with Diggle officiating (one of the paps said it will be one after the other, so not together) wherever they are at the moment (this will be on the legends portion).

This isn't my ideal situation but I can live with it as long as WestAllen get to shine and the majority of the crossover is on them (rightfully so, it's their wedding). If OF want to latch onto their friends wedding then so be it..I guess

Agreed, the most important thing for me is that WA get the build up and screen time If it plays out how I predict it won't be terrible.

Keep in mind that Olicity had a mock wedding in I think season 4? They exchanged vows, Felicity wore a wedding dress. They've had their moment already, so it makes sense for it to be last minute type ceremony.

Poor Westallen, every basic ship latches onto their moments. I've with you both. Couldn't have said it better myself. They continue to deliver with WA through the episodes and with wonderful build up.

There's a reason I don't watch the other DCTV shows. They need to stay in their corner.