Patrick Dempsey - Derek Shepherd {Grey's Anatomy} #30: BC Derek will remain irreplaceable in Mer's life, the hospital and the show itself. #fact - Page 3

gladluvgrey · 07-19-2015, 09:57 PM

And he definitely put an extra in there to make it unforgettable...regardless of how many times the writing made him be a jerk, I think Patrick made him human...

**runawaaay** · 07-20-2015, 12:14 AM

Patrick allowed him to be vulnerable

**PatrickDempseyRocks** · 07-20-2015, 07:38 AM

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Yeah....it's weird to think and feel this way for a fictional character though...guess that's truly a testament of how good Patrick was in giving life to Derek...

its unrreal when you think of it

**runawaaay** · 07-20-2015, 07:49 AM

It does tell how brilliant the man is

**PatrickDempseyRocks** · 07-20-2015, 07:59 AM

yes it shows how talented he is

QueenMeredith · 07-20-2015, 10:06 AM

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It was absolutely disrespectful how little we got to see...I get that they wanted a surprise on the Mer being pregnant with Derek's baby but tbh they wasted a big chance of showing Mer and the rest grieving...maybe, just maybe, if that process was shown better, we'd be ready or a bit more ready to move on...as it is, for us is just almost 3 months after Derek passed...

There was no closure on and off screen.

His exit was treated so horrible, like Jaje said Leah and Shane and guest stars got a better exit than Derek, the freaking leading man, and one of the reasons of the show's success. Still sooo angry!!

**PatrickDempseyRocks** · 07-20-2015, 10:10 AM

I know i still am annoyed about it

gladluvgrey · 07-20-2015, 12:27 PM

And three months later the anger, sadness is still there...Cant get over it, dont know how to get over it...borrowing a line from the show that fit here...How do we make it stop?

**runawaaay** · 07-20-2015, 03:49 PM

We have to live through the pain and anger

gladluvgrey · 07-20-2015, 08:24 PM

Yeah, I guess...

**runawaaay** · 07-21-2015, 05:39 AM

It sucks though

**PatrickDempseyRocks** · 07-21-2015, 09:21 AM

it honestly does

QueenMeredith · 07-21-2015, 09:35 AM

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And three months later the anger, sadness is still there...Cant get over it, dont know how to get over it...borrowing a line from the show that fit here...How do we make it stop?

I don't know how to answer this truly, because it's going to get even worse I believe.

**PatrickDempseyRocks** · 07-21-2015, 09:42 AM

That what I am scared of

QueenMeredith · 07-21-2015, 11:55 AM

It will always going to hit you at the end, no matter what how hard you try.


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