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jediwands 03-09-2018 12:41 PM

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Originally Posted by secretk (Post 93287903)
:lmao: Actually it's the other way around. INTJ are used to understand what's going on. So say that someone stands out or is doing something different. INTJs would try to analyze them. And because they spend so much time analyzing at some point they realize that they started liking the person :D.

One of the serious pitfalls of ENTJ/INTJ interaction (I am not talking only about romantic form, but also about work or friendship) is that they analyze each other all the time. So they get to know each other without actually opening up just because they observe and analyze each other. So then they know stuff about each other.

Everyone else would find this obsessive and sppoky. Like it's weird people to know stuff about you that you have not even thought about yourself. INTJ and ENTJs however do that with each other. Of course because they are NT types they lack any warmth so they might never even share with each other what they know about each other. And even if they do it it would be in a very flat robotic way :D.

Wow so weird... look what I asked above. :lmao: I generally asked what you just explained here. :lol:

It makes sense. :nod:

jediwands 03-09-2018 12:43 PM

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Originally Posted by secretk (Post 93287921)
Btw when you talk to people if they say something does some picture pop up in your mind? For example last week someone mentioned a story about how they wanted to buy sneakers, but their mother told them that they have to use the money to buy shoes for prom. So the moment I heard this I saw the person with white sneakers. I don't know if this was just imagination or I just picked up something.

Does this happen to you?

I get the picture thing mostly when I'm talking to The Other Side. That's how I receive communication... pictures, and even past memories/moments will appear in picture form but then they'll move like a movie projector. It's amazing, it's like it's happening all over again. Then I remind myself that there is no Time... past, present, future are all happening at once... which makes sense why I am Seeing this stuff from Spirit.

As far as when I talk to someone and pick it up... I just instantly know what they're saying or the summary of how it all will turn out if this happens or that happens. I have to be careful not to talk in absolutes though if it's a casual friend, business associate or they'll think I'm crazy. :D But it just comes to me... really, really quickly.

secretk 03-10-2018 05:28 AM

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Originally Posted by The Apt (Post 93288078)
:lmao:

But for you, why could you see ENTJ and INTJ working? I mean, I know you don't want to talk feelings but wouldn't you want to throw the male ENTJ around for trying to dominate and not show much feeling at all?

If a male tries to dominate me then yes we would have issues :nod: . It depends on the maturity level of both the ENTJ and the INTJ. They could make it work if they accept the weaknesses and the strengths of each other. I have no issues letting someone dominate when I suck at something. Say social situation. I could gladly leave the ENTJ being Extrovert and charming and deal with this :D. So in this sense I need Extrovert, but the ENTX types are the lest Extroverts and this is why I prefer them.

As for the feelings part I do not show myself feelings in the classical sense so I do not need my partner to show them as well. I kind of talk about my feelings like it's a science project :lmao: . I need someone to accept this about me and most people would not.

secretk 03-10-2018 05:30 AM

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Originally Posted by The Apt (Post 93288090)
I can feel it. :D I was ready to PM you just now before reading this asking if something else at work happened that pissed you off and did you want to discuss. I could feel this. :nod:

I went to bed around 9:30 PM and got up out of bed at 2 PM today. Now I am recharged.

secretk 03-10-2018 05:32 AM

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Originally Posted by The Apt (Post 93288126)
I get the picture thing mostly when I'm talking to The Other Side. That's how I receive communication... pictures, and even past memories/moments will appear in picture form but then they'll move like a movie projector. It's amazing, it's like it's happening all over again. Then I remind myself that there is no Time... past, present, future are all happening at once... which makes sense why I am Seeing this stuff from Spirit.

This sounds so awesome! Glad that you get to experience this!

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As far as when I talk to someone and pick it up... I just instantly know what they're saying or the summary of how it all will turn out if this happens or that happens. I have to be careful not to talk in absolutes though if it's a casual friend, business associate or they'll think I'm crazy. :D But it just comes to me... really, really quickly.
I have this too :nod: . I know how things would happen.

I get pictures when someone is telling me about their past.

jediwands 03-10-2018 09:12 AM

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Originally Posted by secretk (Post 93293968)
If a male tries to dominate me then yes we would have issues :nod: . It depends on the maturity level of both the ENTJ and the INTJ. They could make it work if they accept the weaknesses and the strengths of each other. I have no issues letting someone dominate when I suck at something. Say social situation. I could gladly leave the ENTJ being Extrovert and charming and deal with this :D. So in this sense I need Extrovert, but the ENTX types are the lest Extroverts and this is why I prefer them.

As for the feelings part I do not show myself feelings in the classical sense so I do not need my partner to show them as well. I kind of talk about my feelings like it's a science project :lmao: . I need someone to accept this about me and most people would not.

:lol: Yes, the only thing I could see as being a problem would be the dominating part. If the maturity works, it would seem okay but if not, look out. LOL

jediwands 03-10-2018 09:13 AM

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Originally Posted by secretk (Post 93293971)
I went to bed around 9:30 PM and got up out of bed at 2 PM today. Now I am recharged.

Wow! You needed it! :hug: Did you cancel the meeting with your friend or is that later tonight or tomorrow?

jediwands 03-10-2018 09:21 AM

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Originally Posted by secretk (Post 93293974)
This sounds so awesome! Glad that you get to experience this!



I have this too :nod: . I know how things would happen.

I get pictures when someone is telling me about their past.

Yeah it's weird. My entire life it came very natural but I always sort of stopped the process because I didn't know what was going on. Then when my maternal Grandmother died and I was OPEN, man the floodgates were opened. So much has naturally evolved. Even my sister said we've had psychics/mediums in the family for years and we have... Great Aunt, maternal Grandmother was interested in Astrology and she talked about Seeing her mother and father after they passed in dreams and also out in the open in their family room. My Grandma had Spirits walk up to her on the road in Western PA for help! They were most likely lost and confused and needed help. My one Aunt Sees too. My mom had some of this as well, very natural. My sister has abilities too. She is talking more and more about it. I wonder if my mom was an INFJ as well. I know my maternal Grandmother was INFJ. I absolutely know this is true based on her personality and how it matches mine, my sister's and Anna's. It totally runs in the family.

Reading about INFJ though... it's amazing how the dots are all filled it. I remember as a young child and young adult feeling strange for not understanding. I wish I would have understood personality typing back then. It would have greatly helped.

secretk 03-10-2018 09:48 AM

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Originally Posted by The Apt (Post 93294951)
:lol: Yes, the only thing I could see as being a problem would be the dominating part. If the maturity works, it would seem okay but if not, look out. LOL

Yeah that won't work :lol: . I think that people kind of pick up quite easy that I am not the one to be dominated just by talking to me. So someone would have to be really confused to think that they could do this with me :lmao: .

secretk 03-10-2018 09:49 AM

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Originally Posted by The Apt (Post 93294999)
Yeah it's weird. My entire life it came very natural but I always sort of stopped the process because I didn't know what was going on. Then when my maternal Grandmother died and I was OPEN, man the floodgates were opened. So much has naturally evolved. Even my sister said we've had psychics/mediums in the family for years and we have... Great Aunt, maternal Grandmother was interested in Astrology and she talked about Seeing her mother and father after they passed in dreams and also out in the open in their family room. My Grandma had Spirits walk up to her on the road in Western PA for help! They were most likely lost and confused and needed help. My one Aunt Sees too. My mom had some of this as well, very natural. My sister has abilities too. She is talking more and more about it. I wonder if my mom was an INFJ as well. I know my maternal Grandmother was INFJ. I absolutely know this is true based on her personality and how it matches mine, my sister's and Anna's. It totally runs in the family.

It's so incredible that you have so many INFJs in your family. Makes me wonder if there is some genetics involved here you know. I am glad that you are open now and you embrace the process.

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Reading about INFJ though... it's amazing how the dots are all filled it. I remember as a young child and young adult feeling strange for not understanding. I wish I would have understood personality typing back then. It would have greatly helped.
It would have helped, but you now later is better than never. Now you know about it and you can finally understand what's going on.

secretk 03-10-2018 09:50 AM

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Originally Posted by The Apt (Post 93294957)
Wow! You needed it! :hug: Did you cancel the meeting with your friend or is that later tonight or tomorrow?

It was today. I just did not go with them. I needed time on my own. It is what it is :lol: .

jediwands 03-10-2018 01:53 PM

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Originally Posted by secretk (Post 93295088)
Yeah that won't work :lol: . I think that people kind of pick up quite easy that I am not the one to be dominated just by talking to me. So someone would have to be really confused to think that they could do this with me :lmao: .

:lmao: Makes sense. Does your best friend understand that you dislike when he goes on and on about emotional things or do you do a good job of just tuning him out? Does he study/understand personality types?

jediwands 03-10-2018 01:54 PM

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Originally Posted by secretk (Post 93295092)
It's so incredible that you have so many INFJs in your family. Makes me wonder if there is some genetics involved here you know. I am glad that you are open now and you embrace the process.



It would have helped, but you now later is better than never. Now you know about it and you can finally understand what's going on.

I really think it's incredible too and you make an excellent point about genetics. It could be a rarity in my family. We would pick up the most rare type too. :lmao: Granted, it's a strong psychic/intuitive type but you know what I mean. :lol:

Definitely. Knowledge is power. :nod:

jediwands 03-10-2018 01:55 PM

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Originally Posted by secretk (Post 93295097)
It was today. I just did not go with them. I needed time on my own. It is what it is :lol: .

:lmao: I hear you!

jediwands 03-10-2018 01:56 PM

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:lmao:

secretk 03-11-2018 05:26 AM

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Originally Posted by The Apt (Post 93296678)
:lmao: Makes sense. Does your best friend understand that you dislike when he goes on and on about emotional things or do you do a good job of just tuning him out? Does he study/understand personality types?

I am not sure that he knows that I dislike it. When he gets into this state he kind of needs to let it out so he does not always pick up if I am interested in this or not.

secretk 03-11-2018 05:27 AM

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Originally Posted by The Apt (Post 93296690)
I really think it's incredible too and you make an excellent point about genetics. It could be a rarity in my family. We would pick up the most rare type too. :lmao: Granted, it's a strong psychic/intuitive type but you know what I mean. :lol:

It could play a role because for example in my family my mother and I are less sensitive than say my father. It seems like a good mix between genetics and raising.

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Definitely. Knowledge is power. :nod:
For sure :nod: .

secretk 03-11-2018 05:31 AM

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Originally Posted by The Apt (Post 93296713)

:lmao: . This is true for teen INTJs. Mature INTJs know that it's not always in their favor to be that honest so we know how to be diplomatic and lie to people. We also do not feel guilty about doing so. At that point we have developed our Extroverted Thinking and we find it efficient enough to lie to people as long as we get what we want at work for example. We also know that being honest might prolong the conversation and we do not always have the time or the desire to do so.

We still say the truth if we care about the people that are asking us because we believe that the truth will help them. Otherwise we lie because it's easier and faster :lmao: .

jediwands 03-11-2018 07:52 AM

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Originally Posted by secretk (Post 93302604)
I am not sure that he knows that I dislike it. When he gets into this state he kind of needs to let it out so he does not always pick up if I am interested in this or not.

Got it.

jediwands 03-11-2018 07:53 AM

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Originally Posted by secretk (Post 93302616)
It could play a role because for example in my family my mother and I are less sensitive than say my father. It seems like a good mix between genetics and raising.



For sure :nod: .

Definitely a good mix. :nod:

In my family, the ones that are not psychic they are sensors. I know at least three aunts that are definite ISFJs. For sure. Uncles are more extroverts but most of the women as a rule are either introverts/psychics or introverts/sensors.

jediwands 03-11-2018 07:58 AM

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Originally Posted by secretk (Post 93302631)
:lmao: . This is true for teen INTJs. Mature INTJs know that it's not always in their favor to be that honest so we know how to be diplomatic and lie to people. We also do not feel guilty about doing so. At that point we have developed our Extroverted Thinking and we find it efficient enough to lie to people as long as we get what we want at work for example. We also know that being honest might prolong the conversation and we do not always have the time or the desire to do so.

We still say the truth if we care about the people that are asking us because we believe that the truth will help them. Otherwise we lie because it's easier and faster :lmao: .

LOL Makes sense and I can see how this might be different if you're at work versus personal life too. :nod:

secretk 03-11-2018 08:44 AM

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Originally Posted by The Apt (Post 93303599)
Definitely a good mix. :nod:

In my family, the ones that are not psychic they are sensors. I know at least three aunts that are definite ISFJs. For sure. Uncles are more extroverts but most of the women as a rule are either introverts/psychics or introverts/sensors.

So would you say that for the most part in your family the women are Introverts and the men are the Extroverts?

With my parents I can't determine. I know that my father used to be quite the Extrovert when he was young, but now he is not. My mother now is more Extrovert than him, but she is also now less Extrovert than she used to when she was younger.

secretk 03-11-2018 08:46 AM

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Originally Posted by The Apt (Post 93303627)
LOL Makes sense and I can see how this might be different if you're at work versus personal life too. :nod:

:nod: . The goals are different at work :lmao: . I don't do anything without a reason. Even the smallest comment directed at someone is on purpose. I always have plans and they are mostly in my head and people are not privy to them. And the ones that are know the rough idea, not every little detail that might seem random, but is actually not.

jediwands 03-11-2018 09:13 AM

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Originally Posted by secretk (Post 93303983)
So would you say that for the most part in your family the women are Introverts and the men are the Extroverts?

With my parents I can't determine. I know that my father used to be quite the Extrovert when he was young, but now he is not. My mother now is more Extrovert than him, but she is also now less Extrovert than she used to when she was younger.

Yes, definitely, the vast majority of women are introverts, on both sides of the family actually. Pretty incredible. While just as many men on both sides are extroverts.

I guess introversion and extroversion can change over time. :nod: Well, usually it's extroverts become more introverted. It's not usual for introverts to become more extroverted as you get older you would think.

jediwands 03-11-2018 09:15 AM

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Originally Posted by secretk (Post 93304001)
:nod: . The goals are different at work :lmao: . I don't do anything without a reason. Even the smallest comment directed at someone is on purpose. I always have plans and they are mostly in my head and people are not privy to them. And the ones that are know the rough idea, not every little detail that might seem random, but is actually not.

Incredible! I admire how logical you have been. Like, you plan everything. I plan but as you know, emotions/empathy can get too involved so I'm way less calculating. Have you been like this since you started working at this job? Did you have a job before this one, by the way?


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