County High Cafeteria #119: We are too obsessed with Winter Olympics to care about a title
 

:thumbs_up: Perfect title!

Thanks for the new one! :hug:

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Why do you get passive like me in this way?

Don’t want to hurt his feelings or intellectually can’t come up with a direct no to him immediately?

Interesting... I figured you’d easily be able to say no way instead of my way which is delay and passively fumbling. :lol:

:hug: No problem! Glad that I managed to do with the title. Those are the hardest for me to come up with :D.

Because I freeze in any sort of social situation. I know that social situations are my weakness and I don't feel confident at all. Especially when it comes to interacting with men. If it's work related conversation I focus on work and think only about work and basically forget the gender of the person.

If it is social situation I can't not see that the person is a man. I am terrible at reading cues so I have no idea when someone is joking with me or flirting with me. I can't determine when someone wants to be my friend or something more. And then I don't know how the person would react so I do not know how to answer properly.

Social interactions are my Achilles heel. In typical INTJ fashion I act like a total fool when it comes to this and I have no idea what to do.

You always come up with the best titles! :D

Got it! Crystal clear. Makes perfect sense.

Where you are now with the situation? Have you officially said no or still up in the air?

It's because I usually do not create threads :lmao: . You are the one that starts them!

I have not talked to him today, but I kind of/sort of might have plans with my best friend. I was not sure if I wanted to go out today or not. He told me that if I go out he will join me. So I might do something like that and then if K asks I will tell him that I had to do something with my best friend. My best fiend always wins over other guy. Well unless I like the other guy :lmao: . And even then if it's serious for my best friend, he is the top priority.

I prefer to use some truth to my lies. They come more convincing this way :D.

Well, I usually start threads that don't need to come up with specific titles like Game Threads, OT2, LOL. Ephram/Amy is due soon and I already know which one I'm going with since it's an Irv VO quote. :lol: Sports is the one that I've always started since it's birth and I have to come up with a unique title. Other than that, not usually. :lol:

:D Makes sense. Good plan.

I do that too when I say no, I like to butter up the excuse with a small truth inserted in there. But then again, everyone knows I am obsessed with sports so when I say I want to stay home and watch a sporting event (or two, three, four, five lol) they know it's a valid reason. :lol:

I am Charlie Brown and Buddy is Snoopy:

We manage to make it work with opening the threads and coming up with titles :). Plus we could always edit a thread and fix the title :). Cool that you have an idea for the Ephram/Amy thread! This is awesome.

I ended indeed meeting my best friend and another college friend. We met in the mall, we walked a bit, had coffee and then dinner. I did not buy what I wanted (purse for work), but my best friend will order one for me. I liked one from online store, but I had to pay with card and I did not want to do that. He said that he will order it with his card and I will just pay him back cash.

Wow yeah, I do come up with reasons that would make sense for me too :nod: . This is the best way.