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02-05-2018 10:10 AM |
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Originally Posted by The Apt
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Yeah, that's what I said up thread about his Cancer sign reacting very quickly/emotionally. It doesn't surprise me. I think he does want to try and work something out with you. He's an idiot, uses gender with you at times in an inappropriate way (although I think it's because he doesn't know how to "control" your reactions) but a part of me feels sorry for him. He is being controlled by the other two. He also reacts harshly because he doesn't have the emotional control. I don't think he's some devious man who's cruel. I think he's a third slightly misunderstood, a third idiot, and another third being controlled.
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That is true, but you know some people fear the smart people. I fear the stupid ones because they can be manipulated into doing a lot. And today this guy might your friend and tomorrow they might betray you. I don't need that kind of people in my life. I have never wanted them and I never will.
I am sure that deep down he is not a bad person, but he is dangerous in the sense that he does not make his own decisions. He listens to the HR and she is one hell of a bitch. You have no idea what she is doing with her man causing him drift with his own kid. She is evil enough.
So no I do not trust him. He is OK as long as he is alone, but it does not take him a lot to get under their spell and then I am the one with the drama and the consequences. No thank you. I tolerated this enough. It's his choice whether he will be manipulated or not.
I think that this is the difference between Te and Fe. You see every side and you are able to empathize with almost every one (there are special idiots like say Jodi Arias that obviously you would never empathize with). I am not like that. Logically I totally see your point, but I still do not empathize with him. I find him responsible for this. He is the one that is not smart enough and he is the one that allows to be manipulated.
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Hopefully a resolution comes soon. Who knows, maybe things needed to crash in order to provide a more comfortable office environment in the future.
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Let's hope so!
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