^I get that, pre-Amaya was 160 and that was after months of working out and had lost 30 pounds. After I had her I was 200 and it wasn't until this year when I was 220 and than 3 months later was 227 that it hit me. Like that's a lot to gain in short time. My sister's a bigger girl too and I'm trying to encourage her to eat better. There's nothing wrong with carbs or junk food it's limiting it. I've given up soda bit will own up that this week I've had 12oz a day (today at Amaya's friend's party, Tuesday night and Monday night at the concert because the guy gave us free hotdogs I felt I should get something at least and didn't want Amaya to drink a whole can of coke herself). It's hard work but worth it.