I saw a stand-up comic bit from (maybe Kevin James? I don't remember), but he was talking about how he didn't understand people who were openly opposed to gay people. And he was like (paraphrasing, cause I don't remember the exact quotes), "Unless you're trying to mow your lawn and two guys are rolling around in your grass getting in your way or you're trying to eat breakfast and
then you have no reason to be upset!"
So true though! Ugh.