See, that's the part where I'm eternally screwed. I suck at the one on one, but I also suck at the group hang. The group hang would obviously work better for me, but the "date" part of it would have to come very naturally and not as part of a plan made ahead of time, you know?
And that's never happened, so I don't see how it ever will.
Good thing I'm fine being by myself.