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I wanted that so much but its too late now
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It really is too late now.
We'll never get that. We will never see Bay and Regina bond. At most, they will have a moment together. That will be it. Regina shared more with Eric's son than she ever shared with Bay.
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It always saddens me to think about all the missed potential with the Regina/Bay storyline. It feels like the writers just went off on a whole bunch of irrelevant tangents and missed the big things, like Regina and Bay bonding over art (they did a little, but not enough), Bay learning about Puerto Rican culture, maybe even traveling to Puerto Rico...
I guess there is a possibility that the writers were intentional with that, and that they are trying to convey the message that things don't always work out so rosily. Sometimes biological mothers don't really care about their biological children and don't want to bond with them. Sometimes finding your bio family doesn't lead to any epiphanies or help heal any wounds. A few years ago, I watched a documentary about a girl who had been adopted and, as a teenager, was going through a sort of identity crisis and decided to find her bio mom. She did, and the meeting was disappointing. Her bio mother was not very interested and had a large new family to worry about. The daughter didn't get to learn much about her, and it didn't help her understand herself any better. I guess that happens enough in life.
If that's what the writers are going for, I want to see it acknowledged. I need Bay to confront Regina once more about this, or even just to say to another character, "It still hurts that Regina hasn't made any effort to be closer to me." Something so that we know she sees it, and it hurts. Right now, the writers are making it seem like everything is fine and rosy, and that just doesn't feel genuine.  |
I believe that's exactly what the writers were going for. (Either that, or the writers truly are the worst in history, and I actually believe these writers are good.)
Like you, I need Bay to confront Regina once more about their relationship, too. An upcoming episode is titled
The Wolf Is Waiting, and I hope it is, at least in part, about Bay & Regina's relationship.
It will probably be about Travis and his mom, though. Or maybe it will be about Bay & Travis. Or even more likely, it will be about Daphne.
It should be about Bay & Regina, though. People talk about the proverbial elephant in the room, well, I feel Bay & Regina's relationship has a wolf waiting in the room for them.
You are correct that the writers are making Bay & Regina's relationship seem fine and rosy right now, and you are also correct that it does not feel genuine. It feels so fake, just like Bay's relationship with Daphne. Sometimes I cannot believe the garbage that the writers are trying to sell us, as we approach the end of the series. Does anyone else feel that way?
On February 28th of this year, Lizzy Weiss tweeted to a fan that she knew about this real-life switched at birth story before she wrote the pilot:
https://www.thisamericanlife.org/rad...360/transcript
Other fans have asked her about similar real-life switched at birth stories over the years, and it is obvious that Lizzy Weiss did her homework before she ever wrote the pilot episode. She knew about nearly all of the well-publicized cases that fans have asked her about over the years.
From the ones I have read, the mothers and the children often do not bond. The two switched children rarely bond either, though. I do not understand why Lizzy Weiss has Bay & Daphne bonding so closely now. Their relationship does not feel sincere to me. Even if Bay had not taken the fall for Daphne, I do not believe that the two girls would be bonded as sisters, like they are on the show.
Bay is closer to Daphne than she is to Toby now. That does not ring true to me. I could see Toby feeling closer to Daphne, akin to what is described in the real-life case, linked up above. In that situation, the brother did feel closer to his biological sister than the one he grew up with. But the writers would need to do a lot of work to develop Toby & Daphne's siblinghood, if they wanted to convince viewers of that.
I still do not understand Bay feeling closer to Daphne than to Toby.
I do not understand many of the relationships on this show, with the exception of Kathryn's relationships with her family. And perhaps John's, too.
Other than that, the writers haven't included a lot of depth. Daphne & Regina had depth to their relationship, but it doesn't feel sincere without the two of them ever talking about the way that Daphne spun out of control.
If you skim over that story from "This American Life" linked above, let me know what you think. I see a lot of similarities to that story and to
Switched at Birth.