I never saw the tweet outside of this thread because I don't follow Ellen (or other actors/actresses on any show, period). I just lurk forums to see what fans are saying about shows I've watched. I think it was the constant feeling of "being disappointed" that caused me to stop following the spoilers. It's a lot more relaxing watching TV now that I don't follow them. Spoilers always got my hopes up and no show could ever live up to my expectations based on the spoilers.