The other half of my discussion is do we actually want it to play out all season to slowly seeing their past lives while she struggles in present time - living their past through her reliving and remembering glimpse's - while at the same time Carter struggles with her not having her full memories of their love, having to struggle with claiming her love again without her having all her memories

Wonder if its the same each time or if normally it usually comes back all together and this is just a unique time where it'll be a slow process which will add to building for the show/angst for TV. Then how could it be explained of this one time not coming back completely like normal