It's not just you Lizy
Ezgi and you are right: there was that gifset who was reblogged a lot that showed the difference between Elena transition and Caroline transition. How Bonnie lost all her powers by trying to resurrect Elena while she rejected Caroline and called a monster, how Elena had Stefan and Damon to explain everything to her while Caroline was alone when she feed the first time, how Matt offered himself to Elena to feed on him while he manipulated Caroline on telling him the truth about her vampire status and broke up with her because he hated it...
Their friendship is not perfect but Bonnie and her love each other and know how to show it once a while and it's the most important for me