Yeah, I wanted to strangle the hell out of him when he kept effin' interrupting John from telling her the truth. Yes, the timing might be bad but she needs to know the truth because when Heather is captured, the baby will be returned to JaSam and she would be making a fool out of herself screaming, thinking they are taking "her" child away from her and that would be bad. Everybody would be like, umm, Tea, your baby is dead, do you know that right? Yeah, all thanks to Todd making her feel like a stupid fool because she would feel that when JaSam is reunited with their baby.
Poor bb will be crushed all at once, dealing with Heather kidnapping the baby and watching other family reunited with the child that's not even hers.