We were just talking about it, me and Sandy, how that didn't make sense at all, for him to just leave like that, I mean, it made him completely selfish, I know he had always been when it came to professional decisions he'd just go with his gut and not think of the consequences, but still, they were planning to start a FAMILY, how do you go from that to I'm-sorry-I-can't-stay-but-why-don't-you-leave-YOUR-whole-life-to-come-with-me