oh i totally agree about that! i LOVED pacey/andie in season 2 and although my favorite ship is PJo, i still love PA so it is disheartening that they broke up the way they did. SO OOC!
and yea, i also totally agree about the DB hate. i dont get the Dan hate, but the DB hate i DO get. i honestly feel that people hate them so much just because they genuinely fear for their own ship. they will be an actual contender to the big couples on the show, or at least they fear they might. look, i hated many non-couples because i thought the couple i shipped was so epic, so its understandable. perfect example for me is gilmore girls lol. i hated jessie and jessie/rory cuz i loved dean/rory so much
i knew JR was gonna be huge and it bothered me lol. i was also like 16 at the time so i dont think this way anymore about any show.