Interesting. Maybe sports helped her to become more assertive since young age despite being INTP? Honestly what you describe does not fit INTJ and INTP both. INTP's last function is Extroverted Feeling and there is no way that she could develop her last function in that age. The last function gets developed after you hit 20/25. Is it possible that she is INFP?

Oh no. I am sure that they blame, but that's on them :D.

The difference between ESFJ and ENFJ is their second function. ENFJ would have Introverted Intuition and ESFJ would have Introverted Sensing. People with Introverted Sensing have good memory and really cherish their past. Like they would remember sensory impressions of stuff happened in the past - how something tasted or smelled for example. They would be better with memories. People with Introverted Intuition would remember impressions. They would remember the conclusion they came to after something. Like I would not remember how something tasted, but I would remember if I had decided to continue eating it or not. If I had decided to not eat it, I can't tell you why.

Also ESFJ would be far better with details than ENFJ.

I don’t think so. She doesn’t have the traits. She’s extremely scientific. Brilliant mind. But she has empathy too.

Yep, lol.

Interesting. I wonder if my dad’s an ESFJ.

It's just weird. Usually an INTP in her age would not have that much Empathy. Weird.

Why do you think that he might be ESFJ?

But then again, my sister said Sara tells me very emotional things she’d never tell anyone else, including her, lol. Kris is shocked when I tell her Sara will get emotional with me.

He definitely recalls past things quite intimately.

I see :). Maybe she is just influenced by the three INFJs in her life and developed her last function earlier?

Ah I see. Does he remember the sequence of the events or the sensory data behind the events? Also is he more prone to stick to the traditions and what used to work in the past or to challenge to status quo and try something new?

It's possible. I would consider her an old soul. She's advanced in many areas. Brilliant too. She didn't even need driver's training. She got into a car for the first time and knew how to drive. She also knew how to parallel park without even being taught. She aces soccer plans effortlessly. She just sort of picks things up faster than most and without much effort. Her science classes are all advanced/honors and she can get by with very little studying. Even my sister doesn't understand how she can go there because whether you're naturally gifted at science or not (like my sister is) you still have to study charts and elements for application. Sara just kind of gets it. So I could see her being quite rare and advanced, most definitely.

This is where I'm not sure because I could honestly answer yes to both ways. I've seen both with him. Personally he acts more like a sensor but professionally he acts more like an intuitive.

I don't like hugs to begin with and I laughed at this... there's nothing WORSE than a surprise hug: :eek:

http://i.imgur.com/aKdsQ20.jpg?1

:lmao: . Same. I hate hugs in general, let alone surprise hug. I let few people in my personal space.