destroyer of worlds

That sucks, Becks but i'm not surprised unfortunately.


When a fan congratulated him on the marriage, he started saying that but then the fan asked something else, and he didn't complete his sentence.

Crying in the club.

Basically today:

a little chaos

Mel. There’s a trio shot here:



And here:

April7739

They are definitely each other’s biggest fans, Mel.

Sucks for them!

I can’t get over hearing the words “husband” and “wife” out loud.

madness

They're actually married.

April7739

The video of him saying it’s the best decision he’s ever made . . .

madness

To actually hear him say it. Wow wow wow. Bless that person filming it.

kiss the wind

Can you all believe????

April7739

This was so much more than I was anticipating. I thought they were gonna be really lowkey, but they weren’t, because they don’t have to be! They’re in love and happy and are proud of it!

destroyer of worlds

I truly can't believe what we got from the first day itself. We all had our expectations but honestly, the content we got still blew my mind. They were so open and happy and gushing, truly newlywed bliss for them right now ... that's clear.

madness

And the stories keep coming.





excuse me while I go make more icons

a little chaos

This weekend is the gift that keeps on giving

madness

Truly is. I never expected to get this much;

a little chaos

It couldn’t be more perfect for me honestly

destroyer of worlds

It’s honestly more than I ever expected. They’re so happy.

Modo1013

I'm not usually one to post on the personal lives of celebrities. But, I would like to share my thoughts on Beliza.

From all of the content we have received from this con, both Bob and Eliza look extremely relaxed and comfortable, especially Bob. From what I know through forums, interviews, etc., this is a huge change for him. He didn't look anxious at all. I am also a little surprised about how open they were about the marriage, given that Bob felt he had to deactivate his Twitter account last month. But ya know, haters gonna hate. From what I can recall, both of them have tried to keep past relationships on the DL.

Bob looks physically different since his last con appearance in March. I'm sure being out of pain plays a big part in that, but, he actually looks younger now to me. Happiness will do that. Eliza looks different, too. And I'm not just talking about the hair color. Bob looks and sounds like a man who has found the thing that has made his life. You could always tell that he cared for and respected Eliza, and that it was mutual. Now they just ooze contentment. It's sweet.

Often times, coming out on the other side of a traumatic event can give a person clarity. The haze lifts and you realize what you need to do in your life and who you need to do it with. I don't know Bob, but, by all accounts he is an intelligent, sensitive, and kind man. The talent and good looks are just a blessed bonus. I believe that the injury, surgery, and long recovery may have been that kind of traumatic event for him. When you are used to using physical activity as a stress reliever and coping mechanism, having to sit around with your thoughts can force you come to some important decisions. Having an epiphany is not uncommon in those situations.

Personally, I believe that it was telling about Bob's previous relationship that there wasn't any real acknowledgment about it from him during the 3-4 years that he and Arryn were in each other's lives. I don't know any details about them except what she posted on IG and Twitter. And most of her postings appear to be in what was in the last month or two of their relationship, which I thought was odd. Does that speak to their individual levels of commitment to the relationship? I don't profess to have a clue. But dating or even part-time living with someone isn't on the same level of committment as engagement or marriage. Even if it is for a length of time. I think that is still true in today's changjng traditions and mores. And within three months of ending that relationship, Bob was engaged and married to someone else. Seems to me he may have used his recovery time to figure out some things for himself.

I've read some of the comments and tweets about cheating and homewrecking. And I will say this. Living life is messy. Arryn seems like a lovely person who is building her own successful career. I'm sure she will find the right person to share her life. Bob was just not the one. If I were her friend., I would advise her to keep her close relationships off of social media. It may help keep the crazies away. I've read some of the posts.

By some accounts, Beliza had dated in the past and decided at some point to be friends. It sounds like it was in the beginning of the show, which may have played a role in that decision. It also appears that Eliza introduced Bob and Arryn. Complicated situation, to say the lesst. And once Beliza got togethet, several years older and more mature, things escalated quickly. I dont blame them for grabbing happiness with both hands. It can be fleeting or downright impossible to find in this life. Regardless of how things went down, it is better for all of them that things worked out the way they did. Getting out of a relationship is always better before a true, this is it for life committment is made.

I speak as someone who was seriously betrayed by by an ex. A relationship that lasted 13 years, 7 of them married. Long story short: he had a mid-life crisis at 30 and impregnated a 19 year old (even though he had insisted we wait longer to have kids). He was a poor communicator with other issues. Once I realized the trust was toast, I divorced him quickly. Found out about the expected baby after the divorce. Devastation isn't quite enough to describe the feeling, especially when you are battling the biological clock. Not to mention, the broken promises. I will say that I came out the other side a more well-rounded person, who learned so much about herself. I'm stronger for it. And I did find a sweet sensitive man to share my life. Added bonus, he's hot!

Didn't mean to write a book. Just wanted to share some views on the Beliza union. Real love is tough to find and harder to keep, especially in their industry. I am happy for them and wish them luck.