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Old 08-08-2004, 08:25 PM
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Guys...

I dont understand them. They baffle me. I just dont get it. I think I'll go become that old woman with 300 cats.

Anyway... Went on a date with this pretty guy... actually two and he is damn hot... he said he was gonna call me and got my number and all that jazz, thing is i dont think he's gonna call. What do y'all think. And its ok to lie to me.
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Old 08-08-2004, 08:37 PM
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men have a special genetic clock installed form birth that means they run three days behind everyone else-so if they say he'll call tomorow, leave it till Wednesday for him to actually get back to you. Two dates is a good sign though....and I hope he does call you.

If he doesn't just rmemeber he was probably a dick anyway-and he's not the guy your supposed to be with

hope that helps

PS. ever thought if the old woman actually chose that lifestyle? rather than the lifestyle choosing her?
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Old 08-08-2004, 11:49 PM
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You're pretty hot. I think he'll call.
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Old 08-08-2004, 11:55 PM
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Maybe his mama has three hundred cats and hasn't let him back out yet.

Alot of times when a guy says "I'll call you" it's just seems like the polite thing to do (for him). He can't bring himself to say....." Ummm this sucks, your a dog and I want some action on the first or second date". Or "I gotta go my girlfriend thinks I'm out with my buddies...later honey".
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Old 08-08-2004, 11:59 PM
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You're pretty hot. I think he'll call.
Maybe I should give you my number and let you call me ; )
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Old 08-09-2004, 12:04 AM
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See, I think I've been blessed with the gift to understand guys for the most part, but then I've been damned to not understanding my own gender.

How did he act around you, ect ect. I'd think he'd call if he asked for your number though. If he took a risk, it isn't likely it was for no reason. He might be waiting just to tease you.
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Old 08-09-2004, 12:07 AM
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Maybe his mama has three hundred cats and hasn't let him back out yet.

Alot of times when a guy says "I'll call you" it's just seems like the polite thing to do (for him). He can't bring himself to say....." Ummm this sucks, your a dog and I want some action on the first or second date". Or "I gotta go my girlfriend thinks I'm out with my buddies...later honey".


It's either he was being polite and didn't really want to call you back or he just didn't think it was a big deal not to call exactly when he said he would call. Wait a few days and see how it goes.
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Old 08-09-2004, 02:22 AM
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The trick is to be patient with guys. They do everything at their own pace...
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Old 08-09-2004, 11:54 AM
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Have you seen that episode of Friends, where Chandler keeps going out with Rachel's boss, but she's a boring lady with mascara goop? And after every date, Chandler's like, "I had a great time, I'll call you," without any intention whatsoever of calling her. And then Rachel asks him why he did that, and he shrugs and says "reflex." And then he goes back to tell her that he's not going to call her, ever, and before he leaves he says "I'll call you."
I'm not saying you're boring with mascara goop. I'm saying that guys open their fat mouths without really thinking most of the time. I'm the kind of girl that says, screw waiting for guys all of our lives. If you have his number, and you think he's worth a 3rd date, you call him.
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Old 08-09-2004, 12:23 PM
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I don't think you should worry about it. Guys never do things on time. It's more than often on their time, or when they remember to. Nothing personal I think. Unless it's been over a week. Then I think it's pretty obvious the boy isn't planning on picking up the phone.
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Old 08-09-2004, 12:23 PM
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men have a special genetic clock installed form birth that means they run three days behind everyone else-so if they say he'll call tomorow, leave it till Wednesday for him to actually get back to you...
I know one who's clock is about two weeks behind .

Anyway, I think everyone has made a good point. A guy likes a girl to know that he has a busy lifestyle, and if he really cares, he'll call you (just not when he says he will, probably a few days after). Just try not to wait around for him, just incase he decides not to call. Carry on with your own life and meet other people, and maybe someday he'll see you and wished he had called you .
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Old 08-09-2004, 12:47 PM
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Most guys don't tease. And if they do it's b/c they think too highly of themselves. My theory is the guy probably has dozens of #s in his pockets & he's lost your's among the pile. Does this guy have anything to offer beyond looks? I haven't seen your pic, but maybe u should think about getting an average looking guy with a great personality, like me.
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Old 08-09-2004, 02:24 PM
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Does this guy have anything to offer beyond looks?
This is the sweetest guy I've ever met in my entire life. And he's funny.
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Old 08-09-2004, 02:26 PM
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Intelligence plays a high factor when it comes to me. Is he intelligent and articulate? A romantic and adorable? Then again, if your guy's funny, that's probably a sign of intelligence. Unless he's funny in a stupid way...but yeah. I should stop talking like I know what I'm saying.

You don't want to call him. That'd make you seem desperate. I think.
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Old 08-09-2004, 02:43 PM
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Intelligence plays a high factor when it comes to me. Is he intelligent and articulate? A romantic and adorable? Then again, if your guy's funny, that's probably a sign of intelligence. Unless he's funny in a stupid way...but yeah. I should stop talking like I know what I'm saying.

You don't want to call him. That'd make you seem desperate. I think.
He seems smart but he doesn't talk much his brother says its because he's really shy. I hope he's not romantic cause I'm not at all.
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