Relationship/Friendship Advice & Support Thread #4 - "The love of your life could be in line for popcorn.."
 

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The Relationship/Friendship Advice & Support Group members:

1. Anna-wa(Anna)
2. Youmademeseeit
3. Emsnao(Nisha)
4. Hogglebee
5. DreadPirateRoberts(Rachel)
6. MissAndieWitter(Mal)
7. that's a bingo
8. - bad romance -
9. missy7280(Marissa)
10. *Fatima*(Fatima)
11. ~♥~CrazyInLove~♥~
12. Electrapop
13. Tiffers(Tiffany)
14. PiCkLeS4dAwSoN
15. Lisi20
16. Uh Blah(Louis)
17. throwawaythekey
18. MBfan19(Wendy)
19. Fer_92(Fer)
20. actualreality86
21. weena
22. dr.Corday
23. Avatar
24. *KindKennen*(Karen)
25. Ron_Cullen(Ron)
26. McSexie
27. vicious_boy
28. David'sgirl12(Krystal)
29. hann
30. Katriin
31. oywidapoodles
32. ~°~Dani~°~
33. Future husband of Kelly.
34. WeBuiltThePyramids(Nicole)
35. Mimmie
36. yashila(Dominique)
37. evielost(Evie)
38. Ella_Ocean(Ella)
39. xlennie(Heleen)
40. Age-a-licious(Adrienne)
41. Just Peachy
42. only dreaming(Mel)
43. ~Adema~(Andrea)
44. CosmicLove(Brooke)
45. jessec12(Jessica)
46. Primordial(Clint)
47. *Nette*(Anette)
48. worththeriskx(Sam)
49. bh11000(Barbara)
50. AAVaria(Nila)
51. Elena_1716(Mari)
52. BreanBamonFan(Quin)
53. Talkative One(Sarah)
54. lonely sidewalk(Nik)
55. ShineSoBright23(Clair)
56. Rolfi Cole(Rolfi)
57. Khleoswife
58. misst89(Theresa)
59. sweetpeaches11
60. Elena_1716
61. Chrissy (Chrissy)
62. actualreality86(Mandie)
63. here comes the sun(Jenn)
64. richerthanyou
65. BreanBamonFan
66. He Is Mighty To Save (Mandie)
67. Elena_1716 (Mari)
68. quin611
70. ~Amarula~ (bridget)
71. Krysie
72. Red Diamonds

Approx a week from now is Christmas Day. Are you ready? Invited to many parties? If so, are you expected to bring someone?

Whatever the plans this holiday Season, beliefs, etc. May you have a safe and fun time celebrating with friends and family. :nod:

Need some advice
 

What do you do when a Best Friend replaces you with new best friends and completely ignores you and never comes to see u in two years or hardly ever calls? Is that a sign a friendship is over and I should just accept it?

Pray for them. They will regret it in the end.

hey guys :wave: just dropping in to say hi.

Karen: Hope you're doing well. I know I haven't been here in awhile.

ncisfangirl2013: It's wrong for your best friend to ignore you.Did you confront your best friend? It's their loss if they choose to not hang out with you. If you guys had a strong friendship nothing should've changed.

:wave: How are you?

Hi Karen :wave: I've been good. I starting seeing someone so I'm pretty happy right now. Hope you're doing well?

So glad to see you back! How are things? Happy for you that you're starting to see someone:) Hope it goes well dear!

Maybe your friend is dealing with something and finds it hard to have you around? Try talking to your friend about it.

I agree with Nath.

Once you make the move, then maybe he will. Try, never give up. They will come about.

Mandie: Thanks for wishing me well. We just started going out last month. :)

How was everyone's weekend?

Wendy, just take it slow:)

My weekend was good, I did very little homework, should have read a book for a book quiz, but I didn't because I was wanting to read it for pleasure, not for education. I went to an ASL social on Saturday night, Friday night my best friend and her family came over. Her son and fiance, so that was good. Sunday just chilled, and got a call at 12:58am on Monday for babysitting because the family was taking their youngest to the hospital and I needed to watch the oldest. He's okay, the hospital didn't give him any meds, he had a high fever and said "There's nothing wrong"... oy.

lt is no big deal, you'll find many people who were once friends eventually go on the different paths that they need to go on, it happens to everyone. People change over time, so friendships will change over time also. In time you will learn to take these things in your stride because it will happen more and more as the years pass and you will become a seasoned pro at dealing with it.

+, if people ignore you because bad things have been said behind your back, it's better you are not around these people because listening to unfounded gossip and talking bad about people isn't a good trait in anybody [let alone a friend]. Spiritually toxic people are as dangerous as pride and ego to the soul, it's very infectious and will darken your orb of light quicker than anything else in my experience.

Best to hang around people who love you for who you are and want to be around you. If you are very positive, uplifting and do good things for deserving people you will find that people will follow you in droves. Positive people with bright orbs of light draw similar people, negative people with darker orbs draw those types of people and will lose out and get done over by not so good behaved people. That is my experience through and through. As soon as l got myself in the right place everything fell into place. We can have great lives, but we need to get ourselves right and be master of our own minds with the higher connection by knowing our true inner selves. Mastering the mind and developing good intuition are the hardest thing to do, but it sets you free. If you accomplish these most difficult things then the sky is the limit and no negative will come into your life. It's amazing how much we can change our lives and destiny - if you are able to be guided by the higher power you can never go wrong. Easier said than done, but it CAN be done by knowing your inner self and by removing distractions. Having faith in the higher power is often not enough, you need to KNOW the higher power intimatley so you can get good guidance.

This probably the last post l will make in this thread.

sorry for bad spelling as usual.

Popped in to say hello and get this off my chest...

I've had this friend ever since grade 2, like over ten years now, and we used to be so close. She was my only friend during that period and my second best friend, after first one moved to different city and due to some parent disagreement we parted.
We went along like two sides of a coin (i tend to compare to my two fav tv show characters), but then at grade 7 she dropped off the good marks and next year I moved on while she stayed behind. That year we kept keeping together during breaks and after lessons, but she moved to different place of the city which was far from centre so that was the last year we stayed on the same grounds. Next year she changed schools and our contacts lessened in intensity. Then I graduated and she fought her school, bad company and what I gathered-depression.
After that we got less conversational and didn't meet often anymore.
Now it's been over a year since her mom called me asking question and stated she had disappeared. I don't know if she got found or not but to me she's still lost.
No contact, dead number and social networks. I'm not even sure she's still in country, or even alive. And this been eating me ever since...

Sorry to hear that :( Since you said it's been a year, have you contacted her mom just to find out what happened? I dont know what I would do if that happened to one of my friends. I just couldnt imagine it happening. I have friends that I would see everyday back in high school and now I dont see them anymore. It's sad when you think about it but it happens I guess.