When you say with actions, she's showing her love to Jason, do you mean that New Years kiss? Cause she's been kissing Drew every chance she gets.
I see something different with how she was with Patrick versus now with Drew. She found every chance she could to help ~Jason with whatever he needed from her even when Patrick asked her not to. Like going with ~Jason to Wyndemere to help him get answers from Helena.
Also:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CFySoEtNp0o
^Sam hesitation in asking ~Jason for a divorce versus now where she tried the first chance she got to give Jason his ring back and proposed to Drew on the same day.
And of course she loves Jason..she will always love him but I feel like she's in love with Drew.