I almost lost it when, during the Christmas episode, she was trying to dig up dirt on him through Wesley Masters, and wrote an awful short story about following him to a bad part of town. What has he done to deserve her suspicion so much? Her lack of trust in him is the one thing that gives me pause about them being the endgame.

i think something major must happen to make Jane turn back to Rafael.

I think so too. They need something big to bring them together.

In tv shows there is no right or wrong. The writers can do anything and often they do really outrageous things. After years of being betrayed I have zero faith in tv writers.

Michael is definitely on the outside and not in a good way. It is as if the writers know they have been sloppy (or really smart if he turns out to be a bad guy) with Michael's storyline so they try to compensate through the J/M flashbacks. Okay even then they are not doing much there.

The thing is I think most J/R fans get what J/M is about. We understand what is good about them. He knows her, they have history, he is supposedly the nice guy among the two, he supported her when she got pregnant by a random guy's child, he loved her even though she left him for another man.
We understand why they think J/R is bad. They are different, according to some fans Rafael tried to manipulate Jane, she supposedly never had real feelings for him, he only loved her uterus etc. This is all understandable but I feel that J/M fans don't understand the good parts of J/R relationship even a bit. That is why they underestimate J/R's relationship. Since Mateo's birth Jane has not been pining over Rafael but why should she? He is right there infront of her asking her to be with him. He is a constant part of her life. She doesn't even get a chance to miss him or wonder what life would be like without him. He is not just her ex-boyfriend, he is her friend as well. When they are together they don't have time to be lovey dovey romantic. They have their own complicated lives, they have a baby. Mateo comes before everything else for them. Think about how tough it was for them to set up just a SINGLE date.
Maybe Jane is not in love with Rafael at the moment, but she loves him. She cares for him as much as she cares for Michael if not more. Most of the time it seems like she is more worried about hurting Rafael's feelings than being with Michael. In season two, Jane and Rafael did not have the time to reconnect romantically, something always came up. When Jane looks at Rafael he is not the fantasy anymore. He is the father of her child who she always needs to have a good relationship with for the sake of her child. She already took the biggest risk of her life by jumping into a romantic relationship with him once, it is going to take a whole lot more to make her do it again. It is not a matter of well if she really wanted to be with him it would've happened already because if that is the case then I can say if she really wanted to be with Michael she would've been with him already. Whenever Rafael and Jane have a moment it is not that Jane doesn't feel him in those moments. To me it always looked like she hesitates because she is afraid. She is afraid things will go wrong between them. She got hurt once by taking a leap of faith and now her child is involved as well. Even when she was in love with him she was so against giving Rafael another chance. I think on two occasions when Rafael made a move she mentioned she still had feelings for Michael. But what does that really mean on this show when you are having a moment? Xiomara kissed Marco even though she was in love with Rogelio. When Jane kissed Rafael in episode 6 did all her feelings for Michael completely vanish? Or when she is making out with Jonathan at the moment are all her feelings for Michael dead? In this show you kiss because you felt something at that moment. Every time she came close to kissing Rafael she felt something. Every time she pulled back. I don't think what she does with Rafael has anything to do with Michael. I think she is just afraid of being with Rafael. That is what this whole romantic saga is about. It is about her fear of being with Rafael. It was a huge theme in season 1. Although they do not explicitly talk about it in season 2 I think it is very much the main issue between J/R. I don't know what J/M's theme is. I would like to know.

I don't know when JTV will end. But if season 2 is not the last season I don't know how J/M will ever be endgame. From the comments I have seen it seems like J/M fans themselves don't know how J/M story will continue or how they would like it to continue. The stories and conflicts they seem to want are the exact plot J/R already have. They want to see Michael and Jane raise Mateo. They want the good parts and the difficult parts. But that is a J/R storyline. They understand Rafael's constant presence in their lives would be the biggest source of much needed conflict in a J/M storyline. Some also want a path to Rafael/Michael friendship. Basically all stories somehow lead back to Rafael or Mateo because you take Rafael out of their lives and they would be a pointless boring (maybe married) couple that might be functional but they should not be on a tv show. And the show can't be without romantic drama. This is not a sitcom. It would not work. J/R as a couple have a story. Their story is not just about finding themselves but also about finding each other. That has been there since day 1!! Here is Jane, here is the guy half a world away. Two different people, two different worlds, look how their worlds collide. And even now this is the story.

Could it be that Mateo is actually keeping them apart rather than bringing them together as expected? She feels like she can't take a risk on Rafael again because now the stakes are too high. She can't risk damaging her relationship with Mateo's dad if he hurts her again. Wow!

I need things to start getting better! do you think JM are going to get together soon?

Unless there is some twist at the end of this season, no, I don't think it'll happen soon (a.k.a this season.)

I don't know if you read the spoiler thread but some news concerning potential rafael stories---

I love how there are pretty much no deal breakers for him.