Giotto

but it was a new begining too.. I wonder why sometimes something bad has to hapen to open eyes and myke you more sensible for the important things in life...

fmaldy24

Um yes please

Um ... yes please again

it's true - even though something might not be going well sometimes you're still like well I know they are out there and I can talk/see them if I want - when something like a bombing happens you know that you need to sort everything out cause even though they are there one day the next they might not be

Giotto

It always depends how close you are involved in the desaster.. if you know people who are there or have familymembers and close friends invlved or even hurt or lost, it makes you feel how fragile life can be.. if it is far away in space and personal feelings you might only think shortly about it and feel sorry for all the people involved, but you forget more easily.. that is why reminders of those catastrophys sometimes are neccessary.. not just for the people involved to get over it, but also to remind the world about the bad things out there..

fmaldy24

Very true Daggi - very true - we do forget very quickly if we are not directly involved with something - it can be sad but true.

Justin says to Brian you know what's it going to take for you to admit you want Gus in your life and love him too? Another bombing? Cause they both knew that was the only reason he said it in the end and Justin is reminding him - saying to him 'you were there you know what it feels like, don't let it go before it's too late'.

Giotto

Justin always was seeing bneath a lot of things, especially accoridng to Brian.. and he was right to remind him

fmaldy24

He was right to remind him - seen as though so many put Brian down or acted like he had no feelings - Justin always seemed to know that Brian did have feelings and what they were and he was pushing him to feel those things and acknowledge them even though it was hard for Brian to do so .

Giotto

Justin challenged Brian to show who he really is.. andI think he succeeded at the end in a way

fmaldy24

I think so too - it's just a shame that it seems after 5 seasons that no-one else still could. I know we've said this before but seriously no-one else would let him change or be who he really was underneath. Only Justin - it's no wonder they loved each other.

Giotto

I think the others just didn't bother enough to look underneath the shell .. only maybe Michale knew in a kind of way, but even he forgot

fmaldy24

I don't know if even Michael did in the end or at all sometimes I think Justin was truly the only one who saw him and wanted to help him and show others who he was as well. Justin =

Giotto

Michael could read him to a certain point and knew why he reacted that way.. maybe that was the reason he didn't go further but left him be the way he is... but he told him off from time to time when he ran out of control with his behaviour... I think Justin had a different poitn of getting under his skin. he didn'T know about all his history and approached him with a fresh eye..

fmaldy24

Yeah I get that too - Michael did have that history with him and especially when Brian had issues with his dad he went to Michael who knew the history but Justin saw him as the person he currently was and made him be

See still learning and seeing new things from your last two posts Daggi

Giotto

I'm glad we can bring new insights to each others opinions

fmaldy24

Me too

Giotto

I love how Brian aproaches Justin from behind during the weddingplanning