That's right, I did see you say that in another thread. :) That's so exciting. And haha well I'm not the best person to ask because I don't go to bars, really...gay or straight. I will say when I DID go to a gay bar I felt way more comfortable and like it was a friendlier environment, but I could just be biased. ;) I don't think it's "weird" per-se, but just don't be surprised if you get hit on... :lol:You're going with friends though, right? You should be fine. Anxiety is a jerk, don't let it scare you away!

Haha I have a couple of stories like that, too. Sitting through my owl took about 4.5 hours and my artist said I was doing great with "just chillen" haha. And I've had those comments about having a thing for pain, too... I'm wondering if it's a little true for me, honestly. :lol: Whenever I get one tatt I always want more right away... and I do get acupuncture done weekly...hmmm... :angel:

Yes, I love subtle tatts like that. That's what I did for my Legend of Zelda tattoos...I knew what they represented without them being super obvious. Fellow superfans get it, too. :)

Well then I'm sold lol. Hey listen, if anyone hits on me, I will take it as a compliment because that never happens :lol: Yes, anxiety sucks!!

That's awesome!! Umm yeah I think I'm in the same boat. I've thought about it--ahem--extensively. I mean--- :angel:

Yup I get you. I think my 1D ones are like that as well. I mean, they are lyrics so people know it's a song. But my paper plane and smiley, you'd have to be in the fandom to know that they are tattoos that he (Louis) has himself.

Awww...lol. :lol: Well, you never know! And anxiety is the worst. I've gotten a lot better at telling mine to shove it though, luckily. :cool:

Hehehe. :angel: No harm in enjoying the process as well as the final result. ;)

That's awesome. Insider/semi-secret tattoos are the best! I get annoyed when people ask me if my tattoos have any meaning. I'm like umm yes they do, to me! Like no matter how I explain it, it never satisfies some people. But I'm not going to type you up a report about why I got them. Honestly... :rolleyes:

"I always say, come clean, or don't come at all. ~ Emmett

I am working on telling mine to shove it, for sure!!

Haha the process is fun :P

I know, same!! It's like--no, they have no meaning, I just got them for fun. :rolleyes: :P

I love it!! Classic Emmett :lol:

Emmett had some good ones too :nod:

"It's harder to wear a dress for an hour, than it is to wear a suit for the whole year."

-Emmett quoting Godiva

:lol: so so true

Mhmm. :nod: I don't even like wearing dresses. :lol: I feel like a freak. (Though, a pretty one...)

As nice as it looks, it's soooooo true :lol:

:lol: you are right about that ;)

I only wear dresses if I have a reason to do so, that's why I know what he is talking about there :lol:

It's nice to hear others who feel the same way. :nod: I know lots of chicks who wear dresses/skirts frequently and I've always felt so awkward!

I know he's going a lot deeper with it here, though... like feminine/masculine roles and dominance and privilege and all that. :look:

I used to hate dresses and was all tom-boy. I'm better with it now and I don't mind dressing up. But after a while of wearing a dress it's like---can I put on pants now? :lol: I don't think I could do it frequently, I sit like a man. :lol:

Yeah it was meant to be deeper, of course.

Once in a while, I really enjoy it. But I still feel weird in dresses/skirts...like, more vulnerable? And they're a pain in the ass because they don't have pockets and it's harder to walk and sit down/get out of cars. :mad:

Yes!! The navigation of being in a dress is what's annoying. You have to be more careful and all that.