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Old 08-20-2016, 12:04 PM
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Has this story been posted yet. It's torn me apart inside... absolutely sickening they did this.


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Denise, I've been reading about this for a few days now and it is truly horrifying ..

.. it's also far from being an isolated incident and there seems to be an disproportionate increase in crimes against the transgender community worldwide ...

.. I watched a heartbreaking vid on NNN midweek from a father whose son hanged himself because of bullying at school .. and the teachers/principal did nothing. It was 18 minutes long and it was loving and compassionate and self~loathing and distressing and honest about the "evil monsters" who caused his son to do this and the hateful parents of the monsters who did nothing to stop them. It was because Danny was an overweight kid that he was bullied .. but Deborah posted a vid earlier with Wilson Cruz .. and he was talking about Spirit Day ...which we usually mention here .. which tries to address so many aspects of bullying and misunderstanding ... and trying to educate people to be more accepting.

If only it were that simple
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Has this story been posted yet. It's torn me apart inside... absolutely sickening they did this.


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that just leaves me speachless and very very sad
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I saw that article earlier in the week and honestly, I couldn't read it. I still can't.
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Yeah, it's unreal what's been happening in the world. Just when you thought people couldn't get anymore rotten, there's always that evil reminder there to reinforce the idea that complete and utter evil and bigotry is still alive, even in 2016. My heart goes out to, Hande.
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Hate and intolerance and bigotry will ALWAYS exist ... let's not even try to pretend otherwise.

Deborah, I've been reading some of David Morse's work this morning and wow does he do his research .. totally ah~amazing man Thank you
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I'm glad you like him, Debs.

This made me smile tonight.

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Aww, that brought a tear to my eye .. thank you
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Aww that was so sweet. I'm so glad more and more LGBT kids are becoming more supportive of each other.
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I love finding the nice and sweet articles sometimes, because there are way too many tragedies.
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You're so right about that, Deborah. Not nearly enough positive events being reported by the media. They're out there, just not given attention.
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I guess the negative ones are important too, because they show us the reality of what's going on. But knowing there are also positive stories, gives us hope for the future.
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I guess the negative ones are important too, because they show us the reality of what's going on. But knowing there are also positive stories, gives us hope for the future.
I was hugely upset when I originally read about this story .. and even more so when I saw the video footage of the victims .. that the attacker got a 40 year sentence is somehow gratifying, although I wish the whole had never happened in the first place.

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Wow…I think its time to change this.

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He was not charged with a hate crime, though, as Georgia currently doesn’t have any bias-crime statutes.
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Wow…I think its time to change this.
Yes, it most certainly is time to change that .. hate crimes are the worst because they are just that .. stemmed from hate .. there is no understanding, no rationale, just blind hatred of something that they don't or won't or can't understand that makes people lash out.

And the victims are always loved and cherished by their "family" whether real or created .. there is always someone to mourn them ..

OMB .. just reminded me of something today .. going to put it in the OT thread
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This is fantastic! Golden Girl: Bea Arthur’s shelter for homeless LGBT youth will open in 2017 / LGBTQ Nation
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