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Old 04-20-2017, 11:19 PM
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Just chiming in to say my relationships are like Cece's except no graduate school, plus a cat!

I was raised as a girl to want to be married and be a mother. And I grew up to be neither of those things and by now, I can see only maybe being married in the future, but no kids by now! My poor mother dreamt of her two daughters to be married with kids and instead we gave her grandcats, and have both worked in jobs like in prison and border guarding oh well, two of her sons gave her enough grandkids so I'm off the hook!
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Old 04-21-2017, 01:27 AM
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Dave, at least it's not snowing anymore or do you prefer that?

Steph, it's other's people's expectations that irks me. We're supposed to live the life that is expected of us and when we deviate from that, we're wrong and not successful. But you know, if you are cheating school with your friends, that's kind of okay right? They should understand.

Cece, I'm good with that.

Leanne, at least you're off the hook. I think I'll never ever be even if my mom has grandkids. Plus I still have relatives to worry about who keep asking me this whenever we have family reunions.
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Old 04-21-2017, 06:58 AM
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no snow at the end of April please Linds.... I might try to take a walk tomorrow
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Old 04-21-2017, 07:12 PM
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Hope that you guys have a good weekend..

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Steph, it's other's people's expectations that irks me. We're supposed to live the life that is expected of us and when we deviate from that, we're wrong and not successful. But you know, if you are cheating school with your friends, that's kind of okay right? They should understand.
Yeah, I agree.. Even tho we have all our own life that we need to focus instead depend on others.. Even tho my friends was cool when they know I always find the time to see them..
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Old 04-21-2017, 09:21 PM
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Wonder why other people always want others to rush into big life altering decisions like marrying or having kids that they think it's ok to ask about it? It makes me wonder if they are jealous of the people who have chosen to take their time and are currently free from big responsibilities like relationship and childcare.

I'm only off the hook cause at my age there is no way I want to start raising toddlers and energetic kids and then teens when the generation gap would be obvious But I removed myself from the group of people who I hardly knew, yet would inquire about my marriage/dating prospects.
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Old 04-22-2017, 07:31 AM
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Hope everyone is having a good Saturday
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Old 04-22-2017, 02:55 PM
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Wonder why other people always want others to rush into big life altering decisions like marrying or having kids that they think it's ok to ask about it? It makes me wonder if they are jealous of the people who have chosen to take their time and are currently free from big responsibilities like relationship and childcare.

I'm only off the hook cause at my age there is no way I want to start raising toddlers and energetic kids and then teens when the generation gap would be obvious But I removed myself from the group of people who I hardly knew, yet would inquire about my marriage/dating prospects.
Yeah, I agree w/ this.. And we don't have to follow what they have since we have our own choice to make as long we are happy w/ that..

Plus, my dating, I always choose wrong guy until I realize that I have to focus on myself that something make me happy..
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Old 04-23-2017, 12:25 AM
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Dave, enjoy our weekend.

Steph, part of us choosing the wrong guys is to help us realize who we really want. I've been in only 2 serious relationships. The last one was a case of "I'm not ready to settle down yet" from him which really broke my heart. But I've moved on since then.

Leanne, beats me. Sometimes it's also just 'small talk'. To me, it's annoying as hell. It's part of why I don't really like family reunions. I stick out like a sore thumb at these occasions.
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Old 04-23-2017, 09:07 AM
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I went for a walk today...nicer day outside...

how is everyones weekend going
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Old 04-23-2017, 06:42 PM
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I hope that the warm weather will be nice this week bec I hate it when it go back and forth..

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Steph, part of us choosing the wrong guys is to help us realize who we really want. I've been in only 2 serious relationships. The last one was a case of "I'm not ready to settle down yet" from him which really broke my heart. But I've moved on since then.
Same here.. I have two serious relationship, the first one was too serious about commitment and all that, I'm not ready, so he was hurt bec of that.. Plus I was too young.. And the second one, I have no choice, but to end it before we going to resent each other, so I end it and broke my heart.. Even tho, I'm much happier and realize that they just not meant to be w/ for me..
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Old 04-23-2017, 10:35 PM
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Dave, month end for me so I'll be a bit busy again. I'm going on vacation this coming weekend so I'll be away for a bit.

Steph, at least we're in a better place, no regrets. I look back at it and think that we're really not meant to be rather than pine and wish we could have tried harder.
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Old 04-24-2017, 07:01 AM
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Dave, month end for me so I'll be a bit busy again. I'm going on vacation this coming weekend so I'll be away for a bit.

Steph, at least we're in a better place, no regrets. I look back at it and think that we're really not meant to be rather than pine and wish we could have tried harder.
Hope that you enjoy your vacation..

And yup, that's right..
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Steph, can I request you to temp mod the board or will you be busy this coming weekend?

Dave, got any plans this weekend?
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it's only Tuesday...but no...my budget is reached.....but I can go food shopping b/c will get my state food money on Monday
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