Jaime Bee

The fact that Buffy gets jealous and really hurt/mad proves she really does have powerful feelings for Spike.

Plus she couldn't get to Xander fast enough to stop him from staking Spike.

Those are 2 good things shipper wise.

falling slowly

I agree with this

Tara and Willow were kissing!

wilywiccan

I blamed Anya & Spike.

Xander did not dump Anya. He just chose not to marry her. He made it clear he was still in love with her and that it was his own issues stemming back to his crappy childhood that were clearly being intensified like salt on a poorly bandaged stab wound what with his blood family there acting so bad even the demons were shaking their heads in disgust.

Anya chose to become a demon again. She chose to hurt people again. She chose to try to viciously murder Xander instead of accepting he unintentionally emotionally hurt her. Being left at the altar is bad but nowhere near as bad as trying to make a literal wish that someone ceased to exist or trying to disembowel them.

Buffy told Spike to move on but he should've known that didn't mean have sex with one of her friends of several years in a place co-owned by her Watcher that she goes to every single week. Part of it was Anya plying him with booze (to trick him into cursing Xander) but he should've still known better.

Jaime Bee

I love when Buffy sees it and you can tell how much she can't stand to see Spike with anyone else like that.

falling slowly

I agree with all of this 100%!!!

Jaime Bee

Wow we we need a title.

B/C Buffy was confused about the over part of their relationship.

It's from Season 7.

falling slowly

Yeah I like that one

wilywiccan

I hated that most of the fans acted as if Xander not going through with a marriage he thought might end in misery, bitterness, adultery, and possible bloodshed, was worse than his ex trying to get revenge by becoming a vengeance demon and then having drunken sex with someone she knows Xander thinks is beneath them (a soulless vampire).

I think that a lot of people only take seriously the things they think could happen IRL. They vilify a character for an attempted rape but are completely okay with mass murder.

The crypt scene when Buffy told Spike to move on was extremely heartbreaking. And I love that he went to the Magic Box to find a spell to rid himself of feels instead of trying to change her. Such a difference from how he handled things with Drusilla in Lover's Walk.

Jaime Bee

It's a funny scene when Buffy is trying to talk to teen about how she and a boy are mean to each other but like each other too. Buffy goes babbling about Spike obviously and the girl is like Ok.

I didn't think that was much a spoiler.

falling slowly

Anya is definately the worst imo

Xander just wanted them to be happy!

Jaime Bee

I never knew that about Xander of course most Spuffy shippers hated him.

I'm still pissed the topic that he tried to rape Buffy in the Pack was never brought up.

I know he was possessed but like Spike he had a demon in him.

Then acted like he didn't remember.

wilywiccan

I think in SR Spike genuinely wasn't trying to rape her. He did try to rape her. That is fact. But despite the fact that he was physically trying his brain wasn't catching up to the reality of his actions.

Entropy proved that. He would've been horrified if someone had suggested he use a love spell (form of rape) on Buffy just as he was horrified when Buffy told him in S5 the only chance he had with her was when she was unconscious (rape). He was shocked she could even think in Entropy that he'd invade her privacy the way that he used to early S5.

falling slowly

When did Xander try to rape buffy? Did buffy fight him off or did he stop? I don't recall the episode

Jaime Bee

Spike was horrified about it when he realized what he almost did.

If he really did want to rape her then he would have kept going after until he did.

Jaime Bee

Season 1 when he was possessed by the Hyena demon.

Buffy had to fight him off and he meant to rape her by the things he was saying.