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Old 03-12-2018, 06:00 PM
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Aw, that is sad. Sorry to hear that you guys no longer talk because of that. I hope she can find a way to get past her thoughts on equality so you guys can talk again.
It is understandable you are not ready to move past that, but hope you are able to eventually. I don't know how close you guys were, but if she has alzheimer's, but hopefully you will be able to move past this if you would like to talk to her again before she doesn't remember anymore (even though I know you want her to forget you again since you are not ready to move past what happened).
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I think we'll have more luck in me moving past being hurt by it

Yeah, that's just it, i know its better to move on. Its better for our relationship & because who knows what time or at least good time there is left
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That is sad if that is the case. Shame your grandma just can't come around.
It is better for those reasons. It just all depends if you want to try and spend time with her/talk to her before the disease takes over her memory I can only imagine how rough this is for you
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I don't know, maybe she would if I explained fully how it hurt me . The thing is I don't think she actually know what she's saying or why she feels that way. She just comes from a time when you had a father & a mother & that was the best thing for children. You didn't have two mothers or two fathers, & single parent families were probably not too good either

She's my only grandmother in some sense so I do want her in my life. For a lot of my life she was all I knew, I just only had my Nanna & that was it. Grandma was this random person I didn't know who randomly would send a present every few years when she remembered. I will admit in the past few years she's gotten a lot better & usually remembers my birthday, but she doesn't feel like family so much to me because she was never there when I was little. So while I still have the two, I'm a lot closer to my Nanna so it would be good to mend things more with her
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I think you are probably right about her not knowing what she is saying and because of the time she came from

That is understandable the way you feel. I hope you guys do end up mending things.
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how's your week going?
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It's going ok. Yesterday was the worst, with the lady on the other side of my cubical eating every hour digging in food bags and two co-workers I don't like doing work for emailing me throughout the day over stupid stuff while I had more important stuff to do.
I am hoping tomorrow will be better at that job.

I have game night tomorrow with some friends, so I have that to look forward too


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Helpful to have a distraction like that. Hope those people you don't like leave you alone so you can do your own stuff

Excellent to have something to look forward to though Sounds like fun!

My week hasn't been too bad, but also glad its over. I'm at the point where my mind has sort of switched off & I'm looking forward to some time off, but still got one more week to go
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Friday wasn't too bad, so that was good

Yes, last night was very fun. Today we did lunch and then ended up also going out tonight for St. Patty's day. I am exhausted, but it was so nice seeing my friend since the last time I saw her was a year ago almost exact We all had a lot of fun.

That is good your week wasn't too bad. I understand that hopefully you can get your mind to work for the next week so you can enjoy your time off soon
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That's good then

Glad you had a good time, even better you saw a friend you haven't seen in that long. I'm sure that was great catch up. Sounds like you had quite a bit of fun doing all those things

I got it to work a little for coursework, we'll see about work for the week
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Yup, it was all good and fun

Good you got it to work for some of your coursework. Good luck getting it to work next week
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hmm sort of worked at least for work not so much for coursework
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Well at least it worked for one of them

SOrry I wasn't around yesterday. Covering at work for someone, and I was exhausted when I got home last night.
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true

Lots of sick babies at work lately nice to have quiet days with less children but sad that they're all off sick

Understandable
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Ick Have fun with the sick babies. I couldn't deal with that

Only a day or so before you travel home! Bet you are happy about that. Hopefully you don't get sick though before you leave.
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