Big Brother - James & Chelsia #6: Because James Thinks Chelsia Is Awesome! - Page 11

xEJx · 05-18-2008, 08:05 PM

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Just wanted to add that Chelsia's Mother sounded like she wanted to talk things out with James. I thought that was cool.

Yeah, that was really sweet of her mother. Too bad that got very awkward, very quickly too.

XChris76X · 05-18-2008, 08:05 PM

well I still have to hear the interview but I'm not really surprised at all. I kinda expected this side of James for the interview I wish he just canceled if he wasn't in a good mood. I think hes having a bit of a tough time right dealing with everything and the drinking, the injured leg and the new tattoo probably aren't helping.

This is just who James is he has these moments. I don't know if its his age or something else but hes been like this in the house and when I heard about this interview and read that he said it should be interesting I kinda had a feeling he would act this way kinda reminds me of the whole sequester scene when he blamed her for his eviction.

ericfan1 · 05-18-2008, 08:18 PM

Do you think that it is possible that he is now trying to get her to fall out of love with him!!!!

XChris76X · 05-18-2008, 08:20 PM

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Do you think that it is possible that he is now trying to get her to fall out of love with him!!!!

I didn't listen to the interview yet but I think he is just trying to lower her expectations. But I still have to hear the interview.

Anickjl16 · 05-18-2008, 08:20 PM

Sue....I guess I'm still on my soap box. James had those goals before he went on the show. He knew that he was going to get back on the road in a few months, so tell me why did he persue he with such a vengance. OMG he walked around the house in her robe for 2 weeks after her eviction. He told Sharon that he missed her smile and the way she smelled for GS. You know when he see's her, the first thing he will want to do is kiss her. Like I said the only person he is kidding is himself.

XChris76X · 05-18-2008, 08:24 PM

Ok I just started listening to the interview and he sounds sick, hungover or something.

Oh hes actually getting tattooed while doing the interview that makes some sense then. Why the hell would he do an interview while getting tattooed? Bad idea.

xEJx · 05-18-2008, 08:30 PM

According to the host, it was James' idea to be on the show with Chelsia. So its not like he was asked to do the interview with her or anything.

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Ok I just started listening to the interview and he sounds sick, hungover or something.

That's just called being in the 16th hour of getting a tattoo

edit- Oh, I see you just got to the part where he mentions that

XChris76X · 05-18-2008, 08:33 PM

Well Chelsia was scheduled to be on the show before James was so I think he just asked to be on the same time as her instead of being on a different day.

Toxic Kisses · 05-18-2008, 08:39 PM

I'm actually gonna defend James alittle and tell you all my POV and this crazy awkward chat.

First I don't think they were ready for it. They either should have talked about everything indepth before hand or waited until they saw eachother in LA.

James seems really afraid of commitment, any kind of commitment. You can tell just from his life style. Add that to the fact that they are both busy and James feels like he can't give Chelsia everything she deserves relationship wise. James never said he didn't like her or didn't have feelings for her anymore he just said he wasn't sure if he could give her everything that she deserved. He even said when she was off the phone he tends to run away from the things that might be best for him. Then said it again when talking to another caller. I think James is scared of any relationship.

I think it was just weird for Chels to hear, another reason they should have talked in detail before doing this. I think he got a little pissy when Chelsia said she doesn't really think a relationship with James would work because when he told her that she got a little pissy.

Chelsia and James are weird. James seems more open talking about things right there and then but is not as open when it comes to his feelings for Chelsia. Chelsia is a little more open with her feelings for James while she doesn't really want to talk publically. I think its just their personalities.

The porn thing has seemed to cause a rift in their relationship too, another thing they really need to talk about seriously.

I have no clue where their relationship will go. There definitely is a lot of tension, I don't know if its sexual or just tension in general but it's there. I'm sure they will have an intense conversation after this if they aren't right now. Then they will probably have another once they are face to face.

Awkward for real.

ericfan1 · 05-18-2008, 08:43 PM

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Sue....I guess I'm still on my soap box. James had those goals before he went on the show. He knew that he was going to get back on the road in a few months, so tell me why did he persue he with such a vengance. OMG he walked around the house in her robe for 2 weeks after her eviction. He told Sharon that he missed her smile and the way she smelled for GS. You know when he see's her, the first thing he will want to do is kiss her. Like I said the only person he is kidding is himself.

I know Joanne and I agree..... That is why that I think that he is afraid because he knows now that he loves her and she loves him and he is scared to death.. He said in the house that he has committment issues and he has just proven that .... It is easier for him to get on his bike and run away than to stay and face the one thing that he is afraid of... a committment to someone. He is used to running away when he is faced with something he is not comfortable with.. I think it stems back to losing his father, he loved him and lost him... I think that he is afraid that if he loves someone again and if he loses them through a death or a breakup, it would be devastating to him. He just can not deal with losing someone that he loves again... I think that he may need counseling to learn how to deal with those feelings.. i am willing to bet that he never really dealt with those feelings when his father died at an early age.. Death and grief is a very crippling tradgedy to deal with at any age but to a child it is even more tragic. So, it is less painful to take the easy road out and run away.. But at some time in his life he will have to face that fear... I feel very sorry for James, maybe because I understand him more than he understands himself. I am no expert and this is just my opinion....

xEJx · 05-18-2008, 08:43 PM

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Well Chelsia was scheduled to be on the show before James was so I think he just asked to be on the same time as her instead of being on a different day.

Yeah thats what I meant. The guy called James and asked him to be on the show, and when he mentioned to James that he was having Chelsia on today, James said that he wanted to be interviewed on that same show.

XChris76X · 05-18-2008, 08:50 PM

Yeah James is def afraid of commitment IMO he was engaged once and I remember in the house he said hes the one that broke it off and he said he loved her and broke her heart so yeah I think hes just afraid to commit.

ericfan1 · 05-18-2008, 08:51 PM

It is pretty clear to me that they both still have very deep feelings for each other...

Norcat · 05-18-2008, 08:54 PM

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Yeah James is def afraid of commitment IMO he was engaged once and I remember in the house he said hes the one that broke it off and he said he loved her and broke her heart so yeah I think hes just afraid to commit.

Yes, he said it a few times in the house.

Janienjm · 05-18-2008, 08:54 PM

ummmm they need to pull them together and james needs to be nice!!! he says he want her to find someone else but he would have a fit if she did!! I could tell he did not like that she was at someone's house parying! did anyone think that???