Grey's Anatomy - Alley Cats [Alex ღ Jo] #39: Because he's the love of her life.

xsweetgirlx91 · 05-28-2016, 08:09 AM

W E L C O M E T O T H E 39th
ALEX KAREV & JO WILSON
A P P R E C T I A T I O N T H R E A D

"...in my mind, they're these two alley cats who hang around together."

shippers.
01. ryanforever
02. Christian'sKimberDoll
03. fragileღheart
04. LEYTON_TLA
05. *~Sophia~*
06. JaSam4Life
07. Pretti
08. Two-Core-Aura
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10. aab11
11. Slexie
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13. gingerly
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16. HiddenFancy
17. Liam's curls
18. TheShepherds
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20. {worshipfulness}
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28. Mountain_Girl
29. Japril
30. AlwaysCB
31. I LOVE japril
32. Annso
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36. maryy89
37. xsweetgirlx91
38. jokarev
39. yarens
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41. AmidalaEmma
42. Laurène
43. dh23
44. Lauren James
45. MrCottonsParrot
46. sourburst

moments.

honourary shippers.
camilla luddington
justin chambers
sarah drew
caterina scorsone
kelly mccreary
kevin mckidd
ellen pompeo
meredith grey
cristina yang
arizona robbins

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quotes.
"if you watch back there are hints of jo falling for him too,
a long time before that kiss. she was crazy about him but
tried hard to ignore those feelings, because she thought
she'd mess it up and ruin their friendship. her insecurities
are just like alex's. but for her - he was always number one.
and there are so many signs of that throughout the season.
but she also had no clue alex felt that way..."

"he allows her to be vulnerable when she
normally carefully controls what she exposes about herself,
and she allows him -- no judgment -- to be exactly who he is."

"she's finding her footing in how to navigate,
for the first time, a really trusting relationship.
he may go above and beyond for her, but jo would
also do anything for him. she wouldn't abandon him."

"i think your "person" would never leave you.
i think they couldn't walk away from you
because it would be hard to breathe without you.
i don't think they have to be "perfect" by any means,
i think they just have to fit for you."
- camilla luddington

"sometimes it’s not about opposites attracting.
sometimes you need to be cut from the
same cloth to move forward, I think that
they understand each other really well,
but I think that she adds an excitement to him
— a spark."

"he’s found someone who is his match
and he’s challenged by that. before,
it was always about, ‘well this is what
i went through and you don’t know what
it’s like.’ now someone does know what
it’s like, so that should be a good challenge.”

"what i’ve been doing the last two years, i think,
is great. they’re giving alex some fun stuff to do with jo."
- justin chambers

the moment.

music.
gun-shy
New York
I'm Gonna Be (500 Miles)
All of Me
You & I (Nobody In The World)
Future Days
We Ran Faster Then

honourable mention:
Be Here Now

reasons.
01. Because they both come from similar backgrounds.
02. Because she steals doughnuts from Dermatology for him.
03. Because she bought him a couch... with the money she won from him.
04. Because they drink beer and hang out.
05. Because she cherishes their friendship.
06. Because he's into her.
07. Because he still believes co-workers dating can work.
08. Because she doesn't want to never see him again.
09. Because she wouldn't find a teacher as good as him if she left.
10. Because he wants the best for her.
11. Because he loves her.
12. Because he would have killed a guy for her.
13. Because she wouldn't have let him cover for her.
14. Because their love is so strong it smashes windows.
15. Because why wouldn't he?
16. Because his home is hers.
17. Because she wears his sweaters like they're made for her.
18. Because they're both fighters.
19. Because not everyone is like them.
20. Because mother nature ships them so hard she had to get in on the action, too.
21. Because her crazy fits his crazy.
22. Because "OH, THANK GOD."
23. Because she's the thing that's special.
24. Because he should have thrown her over his shoulder and had his way with her months ago.
25. Because she's not a nobody.
26. Because at least with her, thinking about dead people is a mood killer.
27. Because Justin Chambers swears that Jo really is Alex's person.
28. Because "dog face."
29. Because he let her in.

fanfiction.
Complex Upholstery
Life After The Storm
Uncharted Territory
Drinks At a Bar
Calling In

fanmixes.

previous threads.
01. Because he called her "Princess"
02. Because she doesn't want to never see him again.
03. Because he loves her.
04. Because she allows him to be exactly who he is.
05. Because they've turned us into tree haters and couch lovers.
06. Because, "..." "I don't hear anything." "Shut up." "Okay, but-" "I'm serious." "Fine." "I love you."
07. Because "If you watch back there are hints of Jo falling for him too, a long time before that kiss."
08. Because it's fate, or whatever.
09. Because, "Alex and Jo are really charmingly funny together." - Shonda Rhimes
10. Because mother nature ships it so hard she had to get in on the action too.
11. "She's the thing that's special, dumbass." - Cristina
12. "Because,"she adds an excitement to him - a spark." - Justin Chambers
13. They're both flawed but they complement each other and there’s an unconditional love."- Justin
14. Because he is her sexy double agent.
15. Because we are hoping for lots of emotional Jolex scenes in season 11.
16. Because we are very grateful for all the goodies we got lately.
17. Because "Jo is the love of his life." - Justin Chambers
18.Because we are impatiently waiting for our big Jolex storyline this season

justin & camilla.

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Spirit of the Radio · 05-28-2016, 08:12 AM

Thanks for opening the thread!

xsweetgirlx91 · 05-28-2016, 08:18 AM

I think there are two big issues for Alex and Jo next season. One is whether or not Alex will keep thinking Jo was about to have sex with Deluca and the other one is the marriage/husband topic. I hope the misunderstanding with Deluca will get cleared rather quickly, I don't want that to go on forever. If it doesn't, Alex will stay pissed and hurt and heartbroken and then he could end up having a one night stand with someone. If it does get cleared but Jo still won't tell him why she won't marry him I think he will try to move on too and date someone. My guess is that the misunderstanding will be cleared rather quickly but that Jo won't tell him about her husband for quite a few episodes. What that will mean for them, we'll see. I'm partly worried and partly excited.

This is so adorable and since it's the only way we still hear that Justin is a Jolex shipper it made me smile so much. They were getting excited... I wonder if the writers wanted to give them the wedding but then decided against it because they had ignored them so much? After all it was very fast for Amelia and Owen.

jokarev · 05-28-2016, 09:01 AM

I really hope that the misunderstanding with DeLuca will be cleared too. I have the feeling it won't be Jo herself who'll tell him though, maybe DeLuca will.

And aww, I loved that video! I think I also read someone tweet that she said she and Justin talk about how they imagine the Jolex wedding to be like.

And that she and Justin always need a few takes to get the scenes right because he makes her laugh so much. I'm so glad they get along so well. It doesn't explain why they got so few scenes together in the past two seasons though.

And I absolutely think that the wedding wasn't gonna be Owen and Amelia's. Usually the writers stick to which couple was established first. But now that they delayed the Jolex wedding again I'm starting to hope for something special when before I just wanted them to go to the courthouse. Or rather, I want Jo and Alex to have the kind of wedding they want. If Jo's first wedding was big too and she and Alex decide they don't want that again then I'm completely happy with a small ceremony or the courthouse. If Jo never had a real wedding and Alex wants a big wedding again like he said in 12x23 then a big wedding it is. I'd love to see Jo in a wedding dress anyway.

ryanforever · 05-28-2016, 09:47 AM

TFTNT!! True title!

ERussia · 05-28-2016, 10:27 AM

Yes, I think DeLuca will tell him after few episodes of being opressed. Alex will probably use his connections to try to fire/lessen his work time.

jokarev · 05-28-2016, 10:37 AM

If Alex did that he'd be a real ass. Mark treated him like crap too when he found about about Alex and Lexie. Besides, he had broken up with jo in the morning (or even before?) and him beating up DeLuca was already completely unjustified. Who knows if the guy will have to be hospitalized for that. I could maybe see Alex not wanting him on his service but anything other than that would be really crappy of him.

ERussia · 05-28-2016, 10:42 AM

Well I can understand Alex... somewhat. It's not like they broke up a year ago, though, considering that DeLuca was fully dressed it was unjustified.

Lauren James · 05-28-2016, 04:44 PM

It's unjustified. Nobody has a right to get violent and put your hands on someone else for any reason. I hope DeLuca is okay.

xsweetgirlx91 · 05-28-2016, 06:36 PM

I have enough faith in mature Alex to know that he won't be an ass to Deluca any further than what he's done now, at least not to the point where he would try to damage his career. That would be beyond wrong. In my opinion he and Jo were broken up, so this wouldn't even be cheating if anything had happened. I can see why he would be upset because the break up was still fresh but honestly, that's not Deluca's fault. But in Camilla's interviews she did mention cheating so I guess it's not obvious if it was over? I really hate that about Jolex, some people would've even called Jo sleeping with someone else in the six weeks in 12x09 cheating when they were broken up back then too. All because we never see the immediate follow up scenes.

ERussia · 05-28-2016, 07:23 PM

What if he damaged DeLuca brains and going to jail for it? I don't think so, but won't be surprised.

Katie99 · 05-29-2016, 04:32 AM

I think that Jo Alex as quickly as possible must tell the truth, she is married and can not be divorced from anxiety because her husband can find them then. Nevertheless, they should get a divorce. You should finally draw a final stroke, because otherwise they will never be happy and always live in fear.

yarens · 05-29-2016, 09:14 AM

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Originally Posted by xsweetgirlx91 (View Post)

I have enough faith in mature Alex to know that he won't be an ass to Deluca any further than what he's done now, at least not to the point where he would try to damage his career. That would be beyond wrong. In my opinion he and Jo were broken up, so this wouldn't even be cheating if anything had happened. I can see why he would be upset because the break up was still fresh but honestly, that's not Deluca's fault. But in Camilla's interviews she did mention cheating so I guess it's not obvious if it was over? I really hate that about Jolex, some people would've even called Jo sleeping with someone else in the six weeks in 12x09 cheating when they were broken up back then too. All because we never see the immediate follow up scenes.

That's so true. We miss out on the immediate aftermath and then we can never tell if they're broken up or not. But I would surely call six weeks of radio silence a break up, and I would also call it one after one party packs their things, yells and then leaves. I don't even know why Stephanie would say that Jo's overstating this when this was a typical break up.

They tend to make Jo overstate things sometimes like when she said that Meredith widowed her but this time I felt like she was right about him being gone. Whatever, I guess the writers will act like there was no break up to make it more dramatic in 13x01. I hate how we still have to wait so long. Still almost four months left.

I watched Camilla's panel by the way but it was almost exclusively about Tomb Raider. I did feel bad for her and Justin when they were getting excited about finally getting married only for the wedding to go to Omelia. I don't know, but whenever couples get married fast they end up divorced rather quickly. And Amelia and Owen have had lots of drama ever since they got together, so I think Shonda wants to keep using them for drama in the future. Jolex have been a rather drama-free couple so far (to our dismay) and maybe Shonda wants to take them extra slow and only give them the marriage and kids in the very end so she won't run out of storylines for them and have them get divorced again before the show ends. Unlike Owen or any of the other males except for Webber, Alex has been there since s1 so his fans have been waiting the longest for his happily ever after. I think Shonda knows that and wants his second marriage to last. And if they indeed plan to take the show till season 15 it's more likely for Alex and Jo to not get a nasty divorce if the marriage happens either at the end of s13 or beginning of s14. I just hope we'll get to see them have a kid before the show ends because I really really want that.

ryanforever · 05-29-2016, 09:43 AM

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ERussia · 05-29-2016, 10:17 AM

I see it like this:
They are fighting/arguing for first 8-9 episodes of season, than DeLuca either tell Alex/or someone who will tell Alex (maybe Maggie who will tell Meredith who will later tell Alex) the truth. Then they are going to unite again, but at the end of mid season finale her abusive husband will appear, while Alex is at work, and say " I finally found you" and then.... mid season ends on cliffhanger.


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