maybe they would appreciate the value of kids

Another thing I thought should have been explored is the fact that Bailey wasn't going to call a code pink and Alex played the Tuck card... Does she blame herself for that ? I don't think sheshould but character wise it would have been interesting.

When I say that I mean like traumas everywhere so they can each shine as doctors. I don't want them to be the victims. With the ferry stuff Izie opened a man head with a tool. Alex was dealing with the families, george was looking for a child etc...

I thought THIS was going to be a high adrenaline episode with the kid missing and everyone counting minutes looking for him while dealing with a lockdown.
Er had stuff like that happening everytime without anything happening to the doctors themselves. While in Grey's too much happens TO the doctors.
Carter, Chen, Abby and PRatt locked in the hospital, really big accidentS .... It made the episodes interesting.. Today Jo and Steph were sitting on their bums doing nothing... Christina was alsways running after a surgery... The only times they sat was to eat.

Maybe Arizona will drop it by not wanting to hurt Sofia feeling if she watches her parent fights.

As I said I think Alex was right and so was she. However it would have been interesting for the character and even as an actor to see that conflict...

Ben was never perfect, he left his family for a career, even, though, later he comes back. I think it's mostly Bailey who is perfect so people seen him as perfect too. I think they are going to write him off soon.
Owen was always weak, he was crying in Cristina shower, acting like a looser, etc. Most of guys are actually weak in Shondaland.
Penny is written this way because according to reports she is going to leave with Callie and I don't see them letting her go with someone bad, so maybe that's why she is perfect.
Agree that ER was better in reinventing itself.
Disagree about new needed catastrophe, it's already too much. Maybe the one that only includes newbies and not in the hospital.

Owen has PTSD and It really offends me that you think having that and breaking down because people do all the time as "weak" If you had to live with a mental disorder you would see there is nothing weak about living with your demons everyday all day long.

It's like PSTD only effect you when your dating not in your general life

Which is total BS .... I wish it worked that way to be honest.

Yeah it effects your work and relationships with your family but the writers do not want go to there.