Matt Czuchry - Off Topic Thread #5 ~ Life is short. Talk fast!

heartღaflutter · 09-16-2006, 02:52 PM

You hear what the title says! Talk fast

ashtray girl · 09-16-2006, 03:04 PM

would you guys mind giving me a love advice? i don't know who else to ask, because no one can be honest since every friend of mine is overly involved in the situation!

heres the thing : should i admit my friend that i love him or not? h

es my best male friend and i love him so damn much, but i don't know what to do! i try to himt something, but he doesn't seen to get it or ignires it. there's a fair chance he's in love with me too, but how should i find that out??

hope i don't bother you too much, i really need some help round here? anyone been/is in the similar situation?

Pemberley21 · 09-16-2006, 03:13 PM

Oh Maja. Hm I am not sure. I honestly haven't been in such a situation. I wish that I could be alot more helpful. Sorry

heartღaflutter · 09-16-2006, 03:17 PM

That's a complicated situation maja..

I haven't been in such a situation, but do your other friends also know about this?! What do they say?!
and what makes you say that the feeling is mutual?! Has he been giving hints or something like that?

ashtray girl · 09-16-2006, 03:45 PM

they all know about this and they don't want me to be with him simply beacause he's not perfect

. he doesn't have muscles, isn't trendy...He's more grunge, metal kind of guy, sarcastic and intelligent but no-one but me ever gets his jokes. one of my friends even dated him for 3 months a year ago, but she never loved him and cheated on him

. now they don't talk and she hates him.
i hope the feeling is mutual because we share the same sense of humor, same interests, taste in music..We've talked countless hours on the MSN at night, he tells me his thoughts, dreams, bought me a rhcp t-shirt in italy

... he loves me! only as a friend????

Pemberley21 · 09-16-2006, 03:53 PM

You know - what is important is if he would treat you well and wouldn't do anything to hurt you. He could be in the same situation that you are though. It's hard to tell. Has he been dating anyone recently? You could try to talk some more and see if you can get any type of "vibe" about how he looks at you - as a friend or more.

ashtray girl · 09-16-2006, 04:01 PM

he hasn't been dating , only had a few hookups during this summer. afterwards he apologized to me?! the only real female friend he has is me, because the other ones only talk to him when they need something! in fact, he even said im' his only friend..ever, because only i understand him and feel the same! funny story, huh?

Pemberley21 · 09-16-2006, 04:30 PM

Maybe because he thought the hookups hurt your friendship. Aw Maja, I am really not being helpful.

If you do tell him and he doesn't feel the same way, it might awkward for him to be friends or maybe he can. That's the problem I guess - either telling the truth and having the truth out there or keeping quiet about it.