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Old 02-09-2008, 12:08 PM
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That's a lovely picture.

I think that when you find someone special, someone who captures your whole heart and leaves a mark, then you will never completely get over them. No matter what happens, no matter how you kee living your life and what you settle for, they will always hold a place in your heart and in the back of your mind. You just try not to think about it, because it would hurt too much.

I read somewhere about some old movie star (can't remember who), who was head over heels in love with a woman and they were together for a while. But the relationship ended (not sure but I think they had an affair with each other). But he never got over her. She died before him and when he finally died, his wife made sure he would get burried next to his true love. You have to admire the wife for doing such thing. And to think, she was probably aware that he loved the other woman more than her, but she still stayed and accepted it. But ultimately decided it would only makes sense if the former lovers were next to each other, where they belonged, I guess.
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That's a lovely picture.

I think that when you find someone special, someone who captures your whole heart and leaves a mark, then you will never completely get over them. No matter what happens, no matter how you kee living your life and what you settle for, they will always hold a place in your heart and in the back of your mind. You just try not to think about it, because it would hurt too much.

I read somewhere about some old movie star (can't remember who), who was head over heels in love with a woman and they were together for a while. But the relationship ended (not sure but I think they had an affair with each other). But he never got over her. She died before him and when he finally died, his wife made sure he would get burried next to his true love. You have to admire the wife for doing such thing. And to think, she was probably aware that he loved the other woman more than her, but she still stayed and accepted it. But ultimately decided it would only makes sense if the former lovers were next to each other, where they belonged, I guess.
That is so pretty Rae and I think you are absolutely right.
I mean we can´t know what went on behind closed door with CS but just seeing videos of them or pics or just hearing him talk about her made you realise that those 2 were head over heels in love with one another.And I have talked about this with Jules a lot - their relationship didn´t end bc they stopped loving each other or bc they fell out of love.It was bc of other circumstances but through all that their love still remained intact.I remember seeing pics of the softball game and it was held a week or so after their separation and I remember that Chad was still wearing his wedding band at that time and god knows for how long he wore it.He just didn´t want to let go.And it´s the same as far as the divorce paper goes,that he didn´t want to sign.
Ppl say he didn´t want to sign them bc of the "fraud" but if that was the case he could have asked Sophia to ask for a divorce instead of an annullment or if he was so willing to let her go - why didn´t he ask for a divorce and not wait for Sophia to do it?
It´s so easy to figure this out - Just if you listen to your heart.
He never wanted to let her go but he had no other choice.Her mind was set and she couldn´t do it anymore

And that story is such You can love many ppl in your life but there is just one person out there that is meant for you and that you are destined for.
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Old 02-09-2008, 12:26 PM
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That's a lovely picture.

I think that when you find someone special, someone who captures your whole heart and leaves a mark, then you will never completely get over them. No matter what happens, no matter how you kee living your life and what you settle for, they will always hold a place in your heart and in the back of your mind. You just try not to think about it, because it would hurt too much.

I read somewhere about some old movie star (can't remember who), who was head over heels in love with a woman and they were together for a while. But the relationship ended (not sure but I think they had an affair with each other). But he never got over her. She died before him and when he finally died, his wife made sure he would get burried next to his true love. You have to admire the wife for doing such thing. And to think, she was probably aware that he loved the other woman more than her, but she still stayed and accepted it. But ultimately decided it would only makes sense if the former lovers were next to each other, where they belonged, I guess.
aww what you said was so nice Rae


omg wow his wife must have so much strength wow thats so incredible of her its so sad though I dont think id have been that brave if I was in a situation like that


I found this quote once Im not sure who said it but I really think its so true

I've never understood the reasoning for someone to "move on" from a relationship. It's not like you are really going to "move on", you are just trying to tell your heart to stop thinking about that person every second of every minute of everyday until it finally becomes a routine and you don't notice it anymore. That is, until you see that person again, with someone who isn't you, and then you have to remind yourself again


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That is so pretty Rae and I think you are absolutely right.
I mean we can´t know what went on behind closed door with CS but just seeing videos of them or pics or just hearing him talk about her made you realise that those 2 were head over heels in love with one another.And I have talked about this with Jules a lot - their relationship didn´t end bc they stopped loving each other or bc they fell out of love.It was bc of other circumstances but through all that their love still remained intact.I remember seeing pics of the softball game and it was held a week or so after their separation and I remember that Chad was still wearing his wedding band at that time and god knows for how long he wore it.He just didn´t want to let go.And it´s the same as far as the divorce paper goes,that he didn´t want to sign.
Ppl say he didn´t want to sign them bc of the "fraud" but if that was the case he could have asked Sophia to ask for a divorce instead of an annullment or if he was so willing to let her go - why didn´t he ask for a divorce and not wait for Sophia to do it?
It´s so easy to figure this out - Just if you listen to your heart.
He never wanted to let her go but he had no other choice.Her mind was set and she couldn´t do it anymore

And that story is such You can love many ppl in your life but there is just one person out there that is meant for you and that you are destined for.

yes exactly thats what I always think to ,its not like they fell out of love with each other,I mean for example its not like they said we need to part because I dont love you or whatever its circumstances that divided them so the feelings they had for each other back then wont have ever gone away there comes a point where they buried probably but if you think about it ,it never will go away and with chad hes more lets his guard down with it than sophia does,with chad you can see it in the looks he gives in her all its more in his eyes than anything it just says it all when he looks at her
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Hi girls!

I was lurking on some site the other day and they were talking about how cute the little things Sophia and Chad would say during the commentaries and how fun the commentaries were and I've never heard any of them So I was curious if anyone has these/knows where I can find these in particular:
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"The Games That Play Us" - Chad, James, Hilarie, Bethany and Sophia.

Season 3:
"With Tired Eyes, Tired Minds, Tired Souls, We Slept" - Mark Schwahn, Joe Davola, Colin Fickes, Sophia Bush, Lee Norris and music superviser Lindsey Wolfington

"The Show Must Go On" - Mark Schwahn, Joe Davola, Sophia Bush and Lee Norris

or any other that pops up in your head, I don't know what episodes had what commentary Any help would be amazing


Awww, I love this board You all always have something beautiful and amazing to say. It's all so true too. These two just shine when they're together - they're love, is a love that I truely believe will last forever, they're soulmates




wow that quote
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Old 02-09-2008, 12:39 PM
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I've never understood the reasoning for someone to "move on" from a relationship. It's not like you are really going to "move on", you are just trying to tell your heart to stop thinking about that person every second of every minute of everyday until it finally becomes a routine and you don't notice it anymore. That is, until you see that person again, with someone who isn't you, and then you have to remind yourself again


I lovee that quote I really do.Its just so true.You never really get over someone who you loved so much.

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with chad hes more lets his guard down with it than sophia does,with chad you can see it in the looks he gives in her all its more in his eyes than anything it just says it all when he looks at her
I know.It´s really all in his eyes.No matter what anyone says
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Old 02-09-2008, 12:40 PM
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Sam I know the first time I saw it I rememeber thinking how much it screamed CS and the way they are now


yeah its always in his eyes he cant ever hide the fact he lights up when hes with her

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Hi girls!

I was lurking on some site the other day and they were talking about how cute the little things Sophia and Chad would say during the commentaries and how fun the commentaries were and I've never heard any of them So I was curious if anyone has these/knows where I can find these in particular:
Season 1:
"The Games That Play Us" - Chad, James, Hilarie, Bethany and Sophia.

Season 3:
"With Tired Eyes, Tired Minds, Tired Souls, We Slept" - Mark Schwahn, Joe Davola, Colin Fickes, Sophia Bush, Lee Norris and music superviser Lindsey Wolfington

"The Show Must Go On" - Mark Schwahn, Joe Davola, Sophia Bush and Lee Norris

or any other that pops up in your head, I don't know what episodes had what commentary Any help would be amazing


Awww, I love this board You all always have something beautiful and amazing to say. It's all so true too. These two just shine when they're together - they're love, is a love that I truely believe will last forever, they're soulmates

hey vanessa

theyre on the dvds I think,Ive heard the season 1 before ,sophia is kinda funny at it as at times she and chad have this friendly banter with each other .I cant remember much about the second but in the third I remember her talking about how the BL fight scene and how she could feel for brooke in that moment and how brooke is crushed because the boy she loved doesnt understand her in that moment but yeah the commentrys on the dvd extra part of the dvd hun


totally soulmates forever love that pic
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Lovely quote, Julie.

Exactly, Sam, you can love endlessly, but only truly be meant for one person. At least that's what I choose to believe.

And since we can never truly know what goes on in people's private lives, I won't judge or talk about it. To me, the important thing is the love they had for eachother, the rest is just sad and unfortunate. They really believed the were meant to be together forever.

Yeah, I really admire the wife. If that was me, I would be crushed.

There is another quote I love:
Don't cry because it's over
Smile because it happened

Oh, I remember another thing I was going to say. It's about the whole letting go/leaving thing. First of all, I doubt Chad wanted to let her go. And second of all, I think one thing that girls tend to do, is that they get dead set on preserving their pride and feelings. It's of course a good thing to keep your dignity and try and save your feelings, but it can be dangerous if you act too quickly. What I mean is, you get so focused on keeping your dignity after you've been hurt, that you make decisions too quickly and leave a relationship because you think it's the best thing to do.

And it's heartbreaking really, to think that they could have made it work if they had worked even harder, and not done some of the things they both did.

I hope what just said, didn't come off as wrong, and people think I blame any of them.
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Yeah I believe that too Rae.In my oppinion there can just be one person you are destined for.You may not end up with that person,but it doesn´t change the fact that that person is your soulmate,which I really think they were for each other.

Just the way they were always together and absolutely the same on so many levels.It´s like they were both the same person but yet completed each other and couldn´t really be whole without the other.
I wish that Chad would realise who it is that makes him happy though and same goes for Sophia.No matter how hard they try they will never find what they had in each other and it is such a shame to settle for anything less than what they had.

I know.I think I would have reacted the same way Sophia did so I don´t blame her at all.She was vulnerable,she was angry.She was just heartbroken.She split from the man who she believed was her one and only so she didn´t think straight.I mean that´s why they weren´t friends from the beginning.
But like she said from the beginning some days were good and some not so good where they avoided each other but now seeing her talk about him again and saying how just bc it was unpleasant before it no longer is makes me think that so many things have changed.
Their sorrows haven´t healed.They have just been forgot for a little while,and they aren´t thinking about them so often as they used to.That is why they are able to maintain this kind of friendship now and I really do believe that this friendship will make them realise friendship only doesn´t work for them.Like they did the first time ...
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Lovely quote, Julie.

Exactly, Sam, you can love endlessly, but only truly be meant for one person. At least that's what I choose to believe.

And since we can never truly know what goes on in people's private lives, I won't judge or talk about it. To me, the important thing is the love they had for eachother, the rest is just sad and unfortunate. They really believed the were meant to be together forever.

Yeah, I really admire the wife. If that was me, I would be crushed.

There is another quote I love:
Don't cry because it's over
Smile because it happened

Oh, I remember another thing I was going to say. It's about the whole letting go/leaving thing. First of all, I doubt Chad wanted to let her go. And second of all, I think one thing that girls tend to do, is that they get dead set on preserving their pride and feelings. It's of course a good thing to keep your dignity and try and save your feelings, but it can be dangerous if you act too quickly. What I mean is, you get so focused on keeping your dignity after you've been hurt, that you make decisions too quickly and leave a relationship because you think it's the best thing to do.

And it's heartbreaking really, to think that they could have made it work if they had worked even harder, and not done some of the things they both did.

I hope what just said, didn't come off as wrong, and people think I blame any of them.

yeah they did believe it was forever a schad said "I woke up one day and said this is the woman I want to spend the rest of my life with" and she said "I feel so fortunate to have found my partner for life " they totally knew they were the one for each other

aww love that quote its very true


your right about that that Rae sometimes in times like that the brain and heart both say different things and its like a neverending battle to figuire out what you truely want then when you do your moments and chances seem to go.....

it reminds ,me of these lyrics from a song

Sometimes it's wrong to walk away, though you think it's over
Knowing there's so much more to say
Suddenly the moment's gone
And all your dreams are upside down
And you just wanna change the way the world goes round
Have you ever felt your heart was breaking
Lookin down the road you should be taking
I should know, cos I loved and lost the day I let you go

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Awww those lyrics

I really think that´s the case too with CS.
When they both have been hurt by it they are terrified to now go and give it another chance bc there is always the ? whether or not the other one would take them back.Whether it would work this time,etc.etc. and unfortunately the insecurities a person can have can be stronger than your actual feelings

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Awww those lyrics

I really think that´s the case too with CS.
When they both have been hurt by it they are terrified to now go and give it another chance bc there is always the ? whether or not the other one would take them back.Whether it would work this time,etc.etc. and unfortunately the insecurities a person can have can be stronger than your actual feelings

Hey Kelli How you doing?
I think now im slightly depressed lol

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Yeah I need to do the same Jules dudette Maybe you could look at that freakishly pic I sent you days ago
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