Off Topic - Romantic Relationship Thread #26: Love is something everyone wants to talk about - Page 20

~Unfaithful~ · 03-09-2009, 01:58 PM

Not that i am one to give advice, but it is better to take a leap of faith than to stay with someone and spend the rest of your life imagining all the what if's...they will drive you crazy. Plus it isn't fair to him to let him think that you are in love with him and happy.

***Yellow Mustang Girl*** · 03-09-2009, 02:27 PM

Do you think there is any way you can bring that spark back? You are committed to him, right? And still love him? Then you might try new places or situations to bring that newness back to the relationship

*Juli* · 03-09-2009, 02:31 PM

Definitely! You can't sell yourself short and create a life and family with someone who you know you aren't in love with anymore. It's not fair to you, him, or a potential child. He may be hurt now, but imagine how much worse it will be if you start a family with him only to leave him then. I'm sure that would be much worse than the pain he will feel if you end it now.

I would never want to be in a relationship where I wasn't in love, nor would I want to be in a relationship where he wasn't in love with me, either. He will surely be hurt but in the long run it's better for you both if you're having such serious doubts.

Jaymez_NY · 03-09-2009, 05:25 PM

had a lotta drama in my love life lately

Tyra from *NOL · 03-09-2009, 08:28 PM

you ok James?

Jaymez_NY · 03-10-2009, 12:26 AM

getting there, honey

**Lemurian** · 03-10-2009, 09:50 AM

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Originally Posted by Jaymez_NY (View Post)

had a lotta drama in my love life lately

Sometimes it takes a bit of drama to get things sorted out and to see what is most important.

Tyra from *NOL · 03-10-2009, 09:50 PM

i agree with Lem.

For those who remembered, things were very dramatic with Luke back then. I know drama.

**Lemurian** · 03-11-2009, 06:12 AM

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Originally Posted by Tyra from *NOL (View Post)

i agree with Lem.

For those who remembered, things were very dramatic with Luke back then. I know drama.

I do remember how very unhappy you were.

A year can change a lot of things, can't it? And the impossible becomes possible.

Dark days can teach us the true value of standing in the sunshine.

Tyra from *NOL · 03-11-2009, 09:00 PM

I'm so happy to be with Eric now. We just celebrated our 6 months together

Daph · 04-17-2009, 04:32 AM

Although I'm single right now, I've decided that my next relationship is going to be with someone I'm totally smitten with and who's as into me as I'm into him. I don't want to settle just for the sake of being in a relationship.

Just thought I'd share it here

**Lemurian** · 04-17-2009, 08:07 AM

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Originally Posted by Daph (View Post)

Although I'm single right now, I've decided that my next relationship is going to be with someone I'm totally smitten with and who's as into me as I'm into him. I don't want to settle just for the sake of being in a relationship.

Just thought I'd share it here

I'm glad you shared. And I think you're exactly right.

candy rain · 04-17-2009, 11:22 PM

what do you get in falling in love? there are many answers,what's yours'?

Edward_Bella1988 · 04-18-2009, 08:47 AM

Alots hugs and kissing. later doing it.

**Lemurian** · 04-18-2009, 09:31 AM

There is already a topic about romance so I am merging this thread there.

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