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09-04-2012 04:02 AM |
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Originally Posted by koodles
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I just noticed all this debate on whether Regina or Rumpelstiltskin can be redeemed and I think that they both can be, but I also think Regina no longer wants redemption or real love. Both Regina and Rumpelstiltskin used a horrible curse that destroyed everyone's happiness, but Rumpelstiltskin did it to find his son and make everything right in that relationship. Regina used the curse purely to make everyone miserable. She just wanted to win. Both of them were very selfish in using the curse, but Rumpelstiltskin did it for the son he loves, Regina did it to punish the woman she hates and everyone else who was happy.
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Well, partly yes, but she also did it out of desperation. She thought it was her last chance in life to be happy, a new start in another place where no one would remember anything because she felt she couldn't be happy in FTL ("they already think I'm nothing", "there's no happiness left for me in this life", etc...) Was it selfish? Yes, but I don't think she did it just to punish Snow or get her revenge.
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Originally Posted by koodles
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I could possibly see Regina putting Henry ahead of her pride and powers, but we haven't seen her stop doing terrible things for his sake. So much of their relationship is about her lying, manipulating and controlling him. I think she loves him, but it's a tainted love that doesn't really do much good for Henry.
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I can agree with that. She loves Henry so much (it has been said many times by both Eddy and Adam so there's no doubt about it), the problem is how she shows that. Regina has a pretty messed up vision of love (no surprise after having a mother like Cora) but that doesn't mean she can't love. The problem is not that she is incapable of loving, the problem is how she decides to show that love.
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Originally Posted by koodles
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As for Rumpelstiltskin, I think he definitely deserves punishment for what he has done, but I think we have seen that he truly wants real love and redemption. When August pretended to be Bae, Rumpelstiltskin just gave him the dagger to destroy. To put that power and curse behind them so that they could start fresh. He is willing to give up a lot for real love. But I admit that I think his desperation to find his son is starting to take him off the deep end again. He released magic without knowing the true consequences and I think we will see him pay the price next season.
So basically the point I'm making is that I think both Rumpelstiltskin and Regina have a chance at redemption. I just don't think that Regina really wants it.
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Rumpel chose magic and power over Bae in The Return and he also chose magic and power over Belle in Skin Deep...yeah, he thought she didn't really love him back then, but he chose magic and power over Belle in A Land Without Magic...again. So I don't see Rumple as someone who wants redemption or real love more than anything. Yeah, he gave the dagger to August...when there was no magic so it was completely useless, like he confessed to him after realizing he wasn't Bae. I think if Regina had the chance to bring Daniel back, if she could be with him again, she would forget about everything else because all she wants is to be loved, more than anything. I think Daniel has been the only person in Regina's life who has made her feel truly loved. She had her father, yes, but I get the feeling Regina has always felt he didn't love her enough, not enough to protect her from her mother's abuse ("Oh, now you're trying to protect me?"). She never forgive him that. So that's the problem, Regina has never had anyone in her life who truly loved her more than anything, aside from Daniel, and he was murdered by her mother. So she is desperately looking for love, True North is a clear example of that, she really wanted to take care of Hansel and Gretel and you just have to see the look in her face when their father told her family always found each other. Rumple, in the other hand, had Bae who was willing to do anything to help him, and he has Belle now. He has had so much good in his life and a lot of chances to be happy that he didn't take.
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