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| No, it was passive-aggressive because she didn't let Nelly know she was ruining her. That was the definition of passive-aggressive right there. With Jenny, she started off passive-aggressive until Jenny took her down, but even then, she didn't fight head on. She went around it and lied to Rufus and sent texts to Gossip Girl did other passive-aggressive things. With Nate, she "forgave" him but never let him forget it. So, I think there is a land of Passive-Aggressiva and Blair Waldorf is it's Queen. And I would love for LM to be all about Blair's feelings for Chuck, but not in a lame drawn-out way. Maybe she just goes out with him in Europe, he follows her to the Hamptons, Chuck makes a play for her again after seeing them together. Then she could ditch Marcus because she realizes she loves Chuck, but still not forgive Chuck because he needs to figure himself out? It's true that the best thing about CB is that they face each other head on and don't dance around things, so it would kind of fail if she pretends to love Marcus. I'd rather her be like, "Hmm, Chuck. Maybe I don't get turned on around Marcus, but at least he treats me with respect and doesn't screw interior decorators or break up with me over text or ditch me at helipads. Put that in your joint and smoke it." __________________ New York started raining on me And teenage love was underground Tonight I break the surface .:Chuck & Blair:. (icon) | |||
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| Fan Forum's Finest ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | I think LM will be there to show Blair that she donesn't want the "perfect gentleman", she wants Chuck And Chuck, feeling insecure that he can't be that guy for her (he lasted a week) can hopefully realise that he's far better for her then any prince charming type. __________________
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| New side called Ingrid I think I'll buy it if we don't have it already, do we?__________________ As we walked along the flatblock marina, I was calm on the outside, but thinking all the time ... But suddenly, I viddied that thinking was for the gloopy ones, and that the oomny ones use like, inspiration and what Bog sends. Now it was lovely music that came into my aid. There was a window open with the stereo on, and I viddied right at once what to do. ~Clockwork Orange~ | |||
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| Don't, Anita. We already have it. It's not interesting. Rita, I could see that being the case as well, I just want it to be over with quickly. __________________ New York started raining on me And teenage love was underground Tonight I break the surface .:Chuck & Blair:. (icon) | |||
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DEFINITION: the expression of negative feelings, resentment, and aggression in an unassertive passive way (such as through procrastination and stubbornness) With all the people I mentioned Blair took active actions to ruin them.she didn't just like not talk to them anymore and do nothing to ruin them. just not talking to Chuck and dating someone to get back at him is passive-agressive. Going out to destroy Nelly is not passive-agressive becuase she takes action.just because she doesn't tell Nelly in the end doesn't make it passive agressive. Trust me I'm studying psychology at university and we had this topic this semester... Otherwise I wouldn't have recongniced the crass difference between what B did in season 1 and what the spoilers suggest!it's not that important anyway but IF she travels Europe with LM and then takes him to the Hamptons she is obviously dealing with CHuck standing her up in a way I resent.If she only meets him in the Hamptons it's better! and yeah her relationship with NATE was the textbook definition of passive-agressive.Silent resentment no actual action!THE reason why I hated N/B __________________ What we learned as children: that one plus one equals two, we know to be false. One plus one equals ONE. We even have a word for when YOU plus ANOTHER equals one. That word is LOVE LIZZY | |||
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| Haha. I'm so behind in spoilers...how did that happen wait so Blair is with Lord Marcus and looking for the Duchess? Maybe they are doing the incest story from the book for LM ![]() __________________ As we walked along the flatblock marina, I was calm on the outside, but thinking all the time ... But suddenly, I viddied that thinking was for the gloopy ones, and that the oomny ones use like, inspiration and what Bog sends. Now it was lovely music that came into my aid. There was a window open with the stereo on, and I viddied right at once what to do. ~Clockwork Orange~ | |||
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| OMG YES- Anita. She will go downstairs to look for the Duchess... Oh, wait. Damn, Marcus was already with her. I want her to find Marcus making out with the Duchess! Or her trying to "get him back." Sigh. And, Lizzy, yes. You are right, lol. I am getting my definitions confused. I think they travel back and forth. Because Nate goes back to NY in episode two as well. __________________ New York started raining on me And teenage love was underground Tonight I break the surface .:Chuck & Blair:. (icon) | |||
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| I'd love it, but poor B! everything happens to her, lol! | |||
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![]() Passive-agressive has to do with how you react to what people do to you.and apart from the relationship with Nate she always went out to lash back and ruin them for hurting her.meaning she took active actions! Quote:
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