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Old 06-28-2008, 11:18 AM
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No, it was passive-aggressive because she didn't let Nelly know she was ruining her. That was the definition of passive-aggressive right there. With Jenny, she started off passive-aggressive until Jenny took her down, but even then, she didn't fight head on. She went around it and lied to Rufus and sent texts to Gossip Girl did other passive-aggressive things. With Nate, she "forgave" him but never let him forget it. So, I think there is a land of Passive-Aggressiva and Blair Waldorf is it's Queen.

And I would love for LM to be all about Blair's feelings for Chuck, but not in a lame drawn-out way. Maybe she just goes out with him in Europe, he follows her to the Hamptons, Chuck makes a play for her again after seeing them together. Then she could ditch Marcus because she realizes she loves Chuck, but still not forgive Chuck because he needs to figure himself out?

It's true that the best thing about CB is that they face each other head on and don't dance around things, so it would kind of fail if she pretends to love Marcus. I'd rather her be like, "Hmm, Chuck. Maybe I don't get turned on around Marcus, but at least he treats me with respect and doesn't screw interior decorators or break up with me over text or ditch me at helipads. Put that in your joint and smoke it."
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Old 06-28-2008, 11:23 AM
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I think LM will be there to show Blair that she donesn't want the "perfect gentleman", she wants Chuck

And Chuck, feeling insecure that he can't be that guy for her (he lasted a week) can hopefully realise that he's far better for her then any prince charming type.
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Old 06-28-2008, 11:23 AM
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New side called Ingrid

I think I'll buy it if we don't have it already, do we?
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Old 06-28-2008, 11:24 AM
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Don't, Anita. We already have it. It's not interesting.

Rita, I could see that being the case as well, I just want it to be over with quickly.
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Old 06-28-2008, 11:27 AM
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Don't, Anita. We already have it. It's not interesting.

Rita, I could see that being the case as well, I just want it to be over with quickly.
I doubt LM will be in more episodes than the ones at the H.
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Old 06-28-2008, 11:28 AM
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Thank goodness for that.
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Old 06-28-2008, 11:28 AM
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No, it was passive-aggressive because she didn't let Nelly know she was ruining her. That was the definition of passive-aggressive right there. With Jenny, she started off passive-aggressive until Jenny took her down, but even then, she didn't fight head on. She went around it and lied to Rufus and sent texts to Gossip Girl did other passive-aggressive things. With Nate, she "forgave" him but never let him forget it. So, I think there is a land of Passive-Aggressiva and Blair Waldorf is it's Queen.

And I would love for LM to be all about Blair's feelings for Chuck, but not in a lame drawn-out way. Maybe she just goes out with him in Europe, he follows her to the Hamptons, Chuck makes a play for her again after seeing them together. Then she could ditch Marcus because she realizes she loves Chuck, but still not forgive Chuck because he needs to figure himself out?
no that was sheming NOT passive agressive.Passive-agressive means that you don't actually don't DO anything
DEFINITION:

the expression of negative feelings, resentment, and aggression in an unassertive passive way (such as through procrastination and stubbornness)

With all the people I mentioned Blair took active actions to ruin them.she didn't just like not talk to them anymore and do nothing to ruin them.
just not talking to Chuck and dating someone to get back at him is passive-agressive.

Going out to destroy Nelly is not passive-agressive becuase she takes action.just because she doesn't tell Nelly in the end doesn't make it passive agressive.

Trust me I'm studying psychology at university and we had this topic this semester... Otherwise I wouldn't have recongniced the crass difference between what B did in season 1 and what the spoilers suggest!

it's not that important anyway but IF she travels Europe with LM and then takes him to the Hamptons she is obviously dealing with CHuck standing her up in a way I resent.If she only meets him in the Hamptons it's better!


and yeah her relationship with NATE was the textbook definition of passive-agressive.Silent resentment no actual action!THE reason why I hated N/B
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Old 06-28-2008, 11:29 AM
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Josh loves to speed through storyline on GG

But LM and Blair are in NY in ep2 so i dont think we can be so sure about him being around just for the Hamptons
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Haha. I'm so behind in spoilers...how did that happen
wait so Blair is with Lord Marcus and looking for the Duchess? Maybe they are doing the incest story from the book for LM
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Josh loves to speed through storyline on GG

But LM and Blair are in NY in ep2 so i dont think we can be so sure about him being around just for the Hamptons
aren't the first 3 episodes partly at the H? Because I thought B is still there in ep 2.
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Old 06-28-2008, 11:32 AM
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OMG YES- Anita. She will go downstairs to look for the Duchess... Oh, wait. Damn, Marcus was already with her. I want her to find Marcus making out with the Duchess! Or her trying to "get him back." Sigh.

And, Lizzy, yes. You are right, lol. I am getting my definitions confused.

I think they travel back and forth. Because Nate goes back to NY in episode two as well.
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I'd love it, but poor B! everything happens to her, lol!
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Old 06-28-2008, 11:34 AM
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aww and Chuckles so wanted to be the first to break the incest taboo on GG


Nate, Serena, Blair and LM and possibally Chuck are all in NY at some point in ep2
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poor Chuck He'll be so disappointed.
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Josh loves to speed through storyline on GG

But LM and Blair are in NY in ep2 so i dont think we can be so sure about him being around just for the Hamptons


And Blair is not into confrontation at all, she avoids situations she doesnt approve of (ie pregnancy) - not dealing with situaions head on and manipulating people so she gets what she wants is not exactly healthy or active. IMO
that has NOTHING at all to do with passive-agressive. THat is just her not being willing to face stuff that she doesn't like!that's a problem too but it's not passive-agressive and has nothing to do with what I was talking about
Passive-agressive has to do with how you react to what people do to you.and apart from the relationship with Nate she always went out to lash back and ruin them for hurting her.meaning she took active actions!

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OMG YES- Anita. She will go downstairs to look for the Duchess... Oh, wait. Damn, Marcus was already with her. I want her to find Marcus making out with the Duchess! Or her trying to "get him back." Sigh.

And, Lizzy, yes. You are right, lol. I am getting my definitions confused.

I think they travel back and forth. Because Nate goes back to NY in episode two as well.
it's a tricky concept!If I wasn't studying for 2 years already I would have no clue at of all th differences!
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