Fan Forum
Remember Me?
Register

  Request a Forum   |     View New Forums

Closed Thread   Post New Thread
 
Forum Affiliates Thread Tools
Old 03-14-2007, 07:33 PM
  #196
Obsessed Fan

 
notoutforawalk's Avatar
 
Joined: Mar 2006
Posts: 5,360
Quote:
Originally Posted by Saranoh (View Post)
I get that, but wouldn't it be better to write it all off as Lorelai's emotional instability and assume that she's "better" now? LOL

voncey, I really do get what you're saying. I just think that DR is going to go the realistic route here, so that's why I keep defending that tactic.
Maybe. Doesn't mean anyone has to be happy. I have been on the bitter train for a while though. I am looking forward to what seems to be coming, but it doesn't mean I actually believe it. Then again, if the XF taught me anything, it taught me to "Believe the Lie." So, if they want me to believe that it suddenly wasn't right or whatever, and it gets me what I want? Fine. It is just a show after all, not the national debt. (Or so I keep trying to tell myself. )
__________________
And if you and I are powerless now, I want to believe that if we listen to what's speaking, it can give us the power to save ourselves.
notoutforawalk is offline  
Old 03-14-2007, 07:35 PM
  #197
Loyal Fan
 
Joined: Apr 2005
Posts: 1,427
If I had just stumbled into this show last year and saw this nonsense play out, I wouldn't give a rats ass - but I've been watching this darn show since it premiered in 2000 - and it was the only show I made a point of watching and I got sucked in to the story and into the lives of the characters and to have Lorelai suddenly acting like someone else's head has been grafted onto her body bugs the heck out of me and I do want more than just "it wasn't right" -

It felt like no thought went into it at all by the writers - they sucked it up, stuck us with this stupid C/L stuff because they had DS on contract and when his contract was up - they just got rid of him with barely a blinking of an eyelash...sorry, but for me, as a fan for all these years, that was just too lazy on their part - as was the whole idiotic storyline.

Thankfully I'm no longer attached to any show like this so there won't be any disappointment on my part when the writers decide not to bother putting any energy into their story telling...all, of course, my personal opinion.

I loved the early years when ASP cared about the show and characters -yeah, there were a few instances when the characters did something headscratching, but at least she seemed to care about the story she was weaving, but, that was then and this is now....
clmorrow is offline  
Old 03-14-2007, 07:45 PM
  #198
Master Fan

 
Joined: Mar 2005
Posts: 11,213
Quote:
Originally Posted by notoutforawalk (View Post)
Maybe. Doesn't mean anyone has to be happy. I have been on the bitter train for a while though. I am looking forward to what seems to be coming, but it doesn't mean I actually believe it. Then again, if the XF taught me anything, it taught me to "Believe the Lie." So, if they want me to believe that it suddenly wasn't right or whatever, and it gets me what I want? Fine. It is just a show after all, not the national debt. (Or so I keep trying to tell myself. )
How is C/L not being right a lie?

ETA: I just didn't feel that it was all that sudden. The groundwork was laid in 7.09. Sure it was pretty subtle, but I thought it was clear enough.
Saranoh is offline  
Old 03-14-2007, 07:45 PM
  #199
Master Fan

 
caf123's Avatar
 
Joined: Jul 2005
Posts: 10,974
Quote:
Originally Posted by Saranoh (View Post)
I just don't understand why an explanation is even needed. The relationship wasn't right. Lorelai finally figured that out. What more do we need to know? From 7.10 onward, we saw why it wasn't right. We saw that Lorelai wasn't all in from 7.11 and even 7.12. Why can't that be enough? Why does there need to be some cosmic reason that the relationship failed? I think Lorelai said enough when she told Chris that she "wants to want him." That confirms that she doesn't want him.
Because by wanting to want him, she is betraying her daughter and her own principles - at least, the principles she used to believe in. The basic principles that most people probably believe in, that it's wrong to desert one's child, it's wrong to go through life taking and never giving, trying to mess up someone else's relationship, never thinking about anyone but himself, never caring about what he does to other people, especially his own daughter.

The Lorelai we knew might have hoped he would grow up, would mature, but she never condoned that behavior or shrugged it off. Not until this year.

Quote:
I don't think we were ever supposed to feel that this was all worth it, and I think that's true to life. Sometimes people just mess up. Not everything has some grand payoff.
Being plain stupid isn't the same as betrayal.

Quote:
Katie, why does it have to make sense? Everyone does stupid things that don't make sense sometimes. Accepting that is HOW I make sense out of Lorelai's actions. I think people are trying too hard in attempting to apply logic to something non-sensical.
It was worse than non-sensical. Running off with a guy she met in a bar would be non-sensical. And we wouldn't need to try so hard, because it wouldn't betray - yes, that word again - who she was.
__________________

Lorelai, about her dog: He's totally fine having his personal freedoms slowly stripped away,
as long as he's completely unaware that it's happening - just like a true American.
Avatar by Mandasmal
caf123 is offline  
Old 03-14-2007, 07:50 PM
  #200
Master Fan

 
Joined: Mar 2005
Posts: 11,213
Quote:
Originally Posted by caf123 (View Post)
Because by wanting to want him, she is betraying her daughter and her own principles - at least, the principles she used to believe in. The basic principles that most people probably believe in, that it's wrong to desert one's child, it's wrong to go through life taking and never giving, trying to mess up someone else's relationship, never thinking about anyone but himself, never caring about what he does to other people, especially his own daughter.

The Lorelai we knew might have hoped he would grow up, would mature, but she never condoned that behavior or shrugged it off. Not until this year.

Being plain stupid isn't the same as betrayal.

It was worse than non-sensical. Running off with a guy she met in a bar would be non-sensical. And we wouldn't need to try so hard, because it wouldn't betray - yes, that word again - who she was.
I understand that. I do. But I just don't think it makes sense to dwell on it. It's over and done with. Lorelai admitted that it wasn't right. Why can't we just put the past behind us? I think the characters on the show have. And I think Lorelai made her peace with Chris's negligence long ago. I just think all the bitterness is completely counter-productive. Things are finally getting better. Why can't we just let go?
Saranoh is offline  
Old 03-14-2007, 07:54 PM
  #201
Loyal Fan
 
Joined: Apr 2005
Posts: 1,427
But it isn't over and done with - what happened will have an impact as the backdrop on whatever is coming up for L/L - and given that it was all dismissed and done so shabbily, for me, having L/L reunite in the next five episodes will be ridiculous no matter how they do it - there just isn't the time to make this next part of this story believable or satisfying as a love story - but, again, that's just me.
clmorrow is offline  
Old 03-14-2007, 07:54 PM
  #202
Dedicated Fan
 
Spikette's Avatar
 
Joined: Apr 2003
Posts: 886
I think you're right, Saranoh. We have to accept what is and keep an open mind for the episodes ahead. I guess we need to see the characters the way the writers want us to see them and try not to overanalyze.
__________________
LIZ
Spikette is offline  
Old 03-14-2007, 07:56 PM
  #203
Addicted Fan

 
Ciaobella's Avatar
 
Joined: May 2005
Posts: 4,489
Quote:
Originally Posted by Saranoh (View Post)
I understand that. I do. But I just don't think it makes sense to dwell on it. It's over and done with. Lorelai admitted that it wasn't right. Why can't we just put the past behind us? I think the characters on the show have.
Well they have to, there's only five episodes left for them . For us it lives on in reruns and message boards lol.
__________________
"And they got these smiles on their faces like their lives are gonna work out the way they dreamt or something...suckers!" Luke Danes, Fight Face


avi by go clo
Ciaobella is offline  
Old 03-14-2007, 07:58 PM
  #204
Master Fan

 
Joined: Mar 2005
Posts: 11,213
L/C IS over and done with, though. It is. I can pretty much guarantee that Luke will have an easier time getting past everything than we will.

ETA: I guess I just don't understand why dwelling on the past is necessary. If L/L can trust each other, why can't we trust them? Luke is no dummy. He obviously knows that Lorelai is a good person for the most part. He wouldn't reconcile with her if he didn't.
Saranoh is offline  
Old 03-14-2007, 07:59 PM
  #205
Master Fan

 
Katiegg108's Avatar
 
Joined: Apr 2006
Posts: 18,731
Quote:
Originally Posted by clmorrow (View Post)
But it isn't over and done with - what happened will have an impact as the backdrop on whatever is coming up for L/L - and given that it was all dismissed and done so shabbily, for me, having L/L reunite in the next five episodes will be ridiculous no matter how they do it - there just isn't the time to make this next part of this story believable or satisfying as a love story - but, again, that's just me.
I agree with you.

We're still debating the whole CL mess because it's looming over everything. Every convo LL have about their relationship now will end up relating back to either the night of partings or the CL marriage or something else that's happened since season 6. And if some of us still don't fully understand or feel satisfied with how the entire CL thing was explaned (on screen), how can we expect anything that happens with LL to make any more sense?
__________________
Katiegg108 is offline  
Old 03-14-2007, 08:02 PM
  #206
Master Fan

 
caf123's Avatar
 
Joined: Jul 2005
Posts: 10,974
Quote:
Originally Posted by Spikette (View Post)
I think you're right, Saranoh. We have to accept what is and keep an open mind for the episodes ahead. I guess we need to see the characters the way the writers want us to see them and try not to overanalyze.
Actually, I'm not analyzing - I watched her with Christopher, and it turned my stomach. They never showed anything to make it feel better.

The only reason for analyzing is to try to put all Ciaobella's spilt paint back in the can. To try to find "deep" meanings or excuses - and it doesn't work. In the end, all that's left is to try to forget - pretend it didn't happen - and just look forward to the chemistry.

Problem is, I used to enjoy the whole of this show. I didn't need to eternal sunshine my mind first. That's the overanalyzing. They've made it impossible to simply enjoy it any more.

On a slightly happier note - I apologize for not entirely catching up but I didn't notice this brought over yet?

Quote:
From TheFutonCritic dev page:

SAM I AM (ABC) - "Gilmore Girls" co-star Melissa McCarthy has been cast in the comedy pilot, about a woman with amnesia (Christina Applegate) who has to rediscover her life. She'll play a former friend of Applegate's character who reappears in her life. While not specified, McCarthy's involvement is likely in second position to her duties on "Girls."

Commitment: Ordered to pilot
Cast: Christina Applegate (Sam), Jean Smart, Jennifer Esposito (Angela), Melissa McCarthy, Tim Russ (Frank)
Writers: Cecelia Ahern, Don Todd
Director: Robert Duncan McNeil
Executive Producers: Don Todd, Peter Traugott (Brillstein-Grey Television)
Producer: Cecelia Ahern
Studio: ABC Television Studio

LINK
__________________

Lorelai, about her dog: He's totally fine having his personal freedoms slowly stripped away,
as long as he's completely unaware that it's happening - just like a true American.
Avatar by Mandasmal
caf123 is offline  
Old 03-14-2007, 08:03 PM
  #207
Passionate Fan

 
tazzded's Avatar
 
Joined: Sep 2005
Posts: 3,287
Quote:
Originally Posted by Ciaobella (View Post)
Well they have to, there's only five episodes left for them . For us it lives on in reruns and message boards lol.
and fanfics
__________________
Daisy

Avi by PollyGreen

LJ
tazzded is offline  
Old 03-14-2007, 08:06 PM
  #208
Master Fan

 
Joined: Mar 2005
Posts: 11,213
Quote:
Originally Posted by Katiegg108 (View Post)
And if some of us still don't fully understand or feel satisfied with how the entire CL thing was explaned (on screen), how can we expect anything that happens with LL to make any more sense?
Because Luke WILL feel satisfied. We either take the leap of faith with him, or we don't.
Saranoh is offline  
Old 03-14-2007, 08:06 PM
  #209
Absolute Fan

 
jalapeno_wildchild's Avatar
 
Joined: Aug 2005
Posts: 6,469
there are some really good fanfics out there on the net too.
jalapeno_wildchild is offline  
Old 03-14-2007, 08:10 PM
  #210
Fan Forum Hero

 
lancer1993's Avatar
 
Joined: Dec 2004
Posts: 69,662
Thanks caf for the MM stuff, but I still wonder with MM (and Sookie) having babies first will MM have the time to do both or would she drop "Sam I Am" for GG or will Sookie having the baby be the perfect time for Sookie to go MIA onscreen?

Okay back to catching the last 3 pages...
lancer1993 is offline  
Closed Thread   Post New Thread

Bookmarks



Forum Affiliates
Spoilers Guide
Thread Tools



All times are GMT -7. The time now is 04:52 PM.

Fan Forum  |  Contact Us  |  Fan Forum on Twitter  |  Fan Forum on Facebook  |  Archive  |  Top

Powered by vBulletin, Copyright © 2000-2024.

Copyright © 1998-2024, Fan Forum.