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Old 05-26-2019, 01:46 PM
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I get that.

I had lived for ten years in the same apartment. And, obviously, we had yearly rent hikes, but once you live there, they can't raise it as much as when you come in the first time.

So it was an adjustment, moving to a new place after all that time.
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Old 05-27-2019, 12:27 PM
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Have you settled in, Sunny, or having some anxiety?

Leanne, change is always hard. Just like you budgeted at home, you'll learn to now.

I'm afraid my roommate is going to come screaming at me some time when there aren't witnesses around. I think her brain has truly turned to mush-she will stand there and lie in employee's faces, when they witnessed what really happened. Anyway, I don't want to be set up to be in trouble.
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I'm doing okay, Kim.

I think you need to focus on finding exit strategies if your crazy roommate ever goes at you when you're alone. You have enough witnesses that you wouldn't need to convince anyone of what's happening. You just need to take care of your mental and emotional safety around her, you know?
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Yeah, Kim, talk about having to feel on edge. I know you’re able to hold your own though.
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It must be very hard to deal with Kim. But remember if she's known for lying it can only benefit you. You can't change her behaviour, you can only influence the way you react to it. Call someone in each and everytime it happens, without responding to it. Make sure she hasn't got any reason to accuse you of anything, and you will be believed and she will not. I hope she can be moved soon.

Anxiety is the number one reason for me to not get enough sleep.
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Old 05-28-2019, 05:03 PM
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I hate when anxiety robs me of my sleep. Hang in there, Claire.
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Old 06-01-2019, 09:09 PM
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Claire, it is tough when that happens, and not getting enough sleep seems to lead to more anxiety for me.
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Old 06-02-2019, 09:41 AM
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That's normal, Kim. I think it's normal anyway.
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Old 06-02-2019, 11:09 AM
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It's a vicious circle for sure.

Thanks ladies, I hope you are sleeping well, too.
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Old 06-02-2019, 12:43 PM
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I'm passed out sleeping any more. Well, once I fall asleep anyway.
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Old 06-02-2019, 05:55 PM
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Anxiety will always wait for you when you get up in the morning.

I realize it's hard to put it aside when you're dealing with it late at night. But it's worth trying.
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Yes, it will appear for the new day for me.
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Old 06-03-2019, 03:46 PM
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So we may as well sleep when we can.
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Truth.
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Old 06-04-2019, 03:41 PM
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How are you doing?

How is everyone doing?
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