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Old 06-05-2018, 04:01 PM
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Sorry you had a flare up!
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Old 06-05-2018, 05:13 PM
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I'm glad you worked it out, Mandie. I know too well how easy it is to get freaked out and anxious like that.
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Old 06-05-2018, 07:51 PM
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Ugh so emotionally|mentally drained living on social assistance of $800 a month finally has caught up to me. Was $60 short on rent and the $50 I had that should have gone to groceries|bus tickets, I wasted way with smokes and stress munchies. Was able to buy a bag of pasta that can last me a few days - been trying to get a loan but bad credit due to a discharged bankrupty and living on $800 a month hasn't gotten me anywhere. Make matters worst is expecting $700-$800 from the govt but ain't until July
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Old 06-06-2018, 05:26 AM
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I'm sorry you're having such a hard time dealing with money issues, and that getting things together, much less ahead, is so impossible at the moment.

Mandie, I'm glad you figured it out.
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Old 06-06-2018, 01:10 PM
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Sorry Sarah!

I know the struggle it's not fun.
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Old 06-06-2018, 01:11 PM
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Its awful
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Old 06-06-2018, 02:04 PM
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Hope you can find a way to not stress about it too much. I think you've done all you can and it's waiting on others at this point.
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Old 06-06-2018, 02:19 PM
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Yea that's true trying to look at it that way
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Sorry to hear that Sar I know how hard it can get with money issues. Have you got family that could possibly help you out a bit?
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Only got my sister but she's got her own things where she's in her last scratch of pregrant with her second
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Yea that's true trying to look at it that way
I know its easier said than done when you have anxiety issues.
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Old 06-06-2018, 04:10 PM
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Look for resources, that's all I can offer as advice. Landlords, phone companies and power companies will accept an extension on a bill, if you're caught short. They'd rather have the money.

You can also ask the phone and power companies to change their due date for bills, if it makes it easier for you to manage your budget. They don't all do that, mind you, but it pays to shop around when they refuse to help you out.

Rice can be the foundation of many cheap and nutritious meals.

Don't be ashamed to use your city's foodbanks. They're there for you. That's their job.

And don't ever, ever think your financial circumstances define your worth or who you are.
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Old 06-06-2018, 04:14 PM
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Thankfully no bills outside of landlord with how it's all inclusive just feel awful
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Old 06-06-2018, 04:19 PM
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Well lucky they're all inclusive that way but it's something that was out of your control.

If you've always been on time and have one slip up, I'm sure it won't incur some big penalty, but I know how your mind can just go to the negative and stay there.

That's great advice too Sunny!
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Old 06-06-2018, 04:21 PM
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Yea private small bachelor basement apartment

Been almost 3 years and have had previous troubles but that was awhile ago where this is oblylike$60 short
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