Communities - The Always Been Single Club 1 - because we haven't found the right person yet - Page 2

**blue sky blues** · 04-20-2009, 05:58 AM

Yes. Count me in. I have ALWAYS been single. Its kind of a burden sometimes, but most of the time I really don't mind it.

MissAndieWitter · 04-21-2009, 01:41 AM

Hey Jory.

Yeah, I know what you mean about the burden thing.

DreadPirateRoberts · 04-21-2009, 02:12 AM

Tis no burden at all. I quite like it, for now.

MissAndieWitter · 04-21-2009, 02:39 AM

You're lucky. I'm one of those hopeless romantics. I'm completely in love with the idea of love.

Shining Light · 04-21-2009, 06:03 AM

Count me in, lifelong single gal here.

missy7280 · 04-21-2009, 11:37 PM

Oooo pick me! haha yep, always been single. Not cool.

I was really hoping once I got into college things would change... but here I am finishing my first year and nothing yet.

*Fatima* · 04-22-2009, 04:58 AM

Count me in too. I have been single all my life and I'm getting tired of it. My friends are getting married or moving in together, or they're trying to get pregnant. It's like everyone is moving on with their lives somehow and I'm stuck being single.

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You're lucky. I'm one of those hopeless romantics. I'm completely in love with the idea of love.

I'm quite the opposite. I have given up on love. I have seen it go horribly wrong too many times.

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I was really hoping once I got into college things would change... but here I am finishing my first year and nothing yet.

I was like that when I started college. I thought, maybe, just maybe, there is someone for me there. No luck at all.

~♥~CrazyInLove~♥~ · 06-09-2009, 12:05 AM

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I'm one of those hopeless romantics. I'm completely in love with the idea of love.

Awwwwwwwwww me too

I love knowing I'm not the only one who's been single forever

But I agree, it SUCKS to see how things happen to everyone but me

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I was really hoping once I got into college things would change... but here I am finishing my first year and nothing yet.

Yeah, I thought so too, but I graduated almost 3 years ago, and still nothing

Shining Light · 06-09-2009, 04:44 AM

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My friends are getting married or moving in together, or they're trying to get pregnant. It's like everyone is moving on with their lives somehow and I'm stuck being single.

I know just what you mean.

And here I am, almost 23, and never been in a proper relationship.

Electrapop · 06-10-2009, 02:10 PM

oh thank god, i thought i was the only one. add me plz. 17 and never had a boyfriend. its got its good side and bad sides. i guess i'm just a hopless romantic.

anna-wa: i like your thinking. we ARE too good for people, but ourselves.

Tiffers · 06-12-2009, 06:38 AM

Hi

Wow a place I can hang! I'm going to be 31 in a few weeks and I have ALWAYS been single! I think I'm a romantic, my favorite book/movie is Pride and Prejudice, I go to romantic comedies whenever they come out

It's been hard as I got older..just because people keep asking you if you are seeing someone and you're like No and you get this look

and I get

Sorry just a tad bitter

Anyways, just wanted to say hi to everyone and I completely understand!

Electrapop · 06-12-2009, 07:36 AM

hey tiffers. 31 & single? i'm sorry. i know how you feel, though i'm not 31. yet

Tiffers · 06-12-2009, 08:15 AM

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Originally Posted by Electrapop (View Post)

hey tiffers. 31 & single? i'm sorry. i know how you feel, though i'm not 31. yet

Yep that's me!

I'm a little shy sometimes so that doesn't help too much

but I have been getting out there just socializing in general in and outside of work.

I'm sure you'll find someone though! I'm always optimistic for everyone else but myself

Electrapop · 06-12-2009, 09:44 AM

i am definitely that way. but i think what the problem is for me, is when friends are in the middle of break ups and stuff, i always put them first instead of putting myself first and going out and taking my advice.

PiCkLeS4dAwSoN · 06-12-2009, 09:48 AM

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Originally Posted by MissAndieWitter (View Post)

I'm one of those hopeless romantics. I'm completely in love with the idea of love.

That is so me too, Mal. Romance PWNS anything/everything for me...and then some.

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Originally Posted by Tiffers (View Post)

I think I'm a romantic, my favorite book/movie is Pride and Prejudice, I go to romantic comedies whenever they come out

It's been hard as I got older..just because people keep asking you if you are seeing someone and you're like No and you get this look

and I get

Sorry just a tad bitter

Anyways, just wanted to say hi to everyone and I completely understand!

That's me too, Tiff.

There's so many love stories I've seen that I've just fallen head over for, and even more so, the men involved...I've just come to realize that doesn't really exist. Or it sure doesn't seem like it. And yep, I've gotten those questions/looks too.

Could I join?

I haven't always been single, but I might as well have, lol. It's been forever since I've been in an actual relationship, and even then, I was a tween/tween. I'm in my 20s now. As much of an idealistic romantisist that I am...I've just gotten to the point where I don't think there's someone out there for me.

And even if there were, I'm sure I'd just end up pushing them away, since I tend to do that more often than not. It's a defense mechanism.

ETA: I'm Anji, btw.