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first of all.. as long as Violet doesnt get professional help (not running off to touch monkeys or watch the rain forrest or whatever) I still dont understand her. As long as she doesnt search for help and finally starts healing with the professional help of someone else.. she is not healed and yeah...
no offense but Violet and Pete started out with only sex as well, its actually funny how people seem to forget about that but are against Pete and Addie. Generally speaking of course. V/P started out becasue the one felt horney and the other one was there.. they started out with lots of sex (while Violet had the most sex because she had TWO sex toys) and THEN formed into something more. So why shouldnt that happen with Addison and Pete? Because they are in love with other people? well sometimes you start to actually move on from the feelings if you know that you cant be with the one you love. It would be really sad if you could only be in love once. why exactly is it unfair? Violet decided to turn her back on her relationship (and while I support her choice to leave Lucas to Pete because she clearly was in no state of mind to take care of a kid and I think it was a good thing that she wanted lucas to have it better and brought him over to Pete) but the decision I am really talking about is: She made the decision not to get professional help, therefore she was not getting better.. she lost her boyfriend in that process - so now all of sudden.. it would be a bit unfair to want him back just because he is moving on with Addison. __________________
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I have not forgotten how my ship started out, thank you very much. But considering my shipping tendency is not purely based on how logical the romance is, but rather what my gut instincts tell me, there is no way you can logic me into jumping ships, so why bother trying? I get that you're on team Addison, and while I don't think there should be a contest, I'm gonna pledge my allegiance to Team Violet, cause she needs my support far more than Addie does (stipulating once again that I LOVE Addison and have done so since she first appeared in Grey's... and I'm a diehard MerDer shipper, even)
I've been longing for Addie to find happiness and I had high hopes for her and Alex to find it, but of course she was on track to get her own show, so that was doomed. Now my high hope is for her and Sam to find it and I think this Addie/Pete thing stands in the way, not just for Violet's happiness, but Addison's as well. I don't feel anything, not a zinge when I watch Addie and Pete together, not like I felt it with Addie and Alex, Addie and Sam, and more importantly Pete and Violet, which in the end is my main ship. In my heart I don't believe Paddison is moving on, I think they are in denial. I think they believe that if they try really hard they can make themselves fall for each other, because it's way less messy than going for something with the people they actually are in love with, but that isn't how it works. Love isn't about logic, about what's easier, love is something that just happens. Having said all that, I want to underline that this thread is about Violet, not Addie. Addie has her own very active thread (at least compared to this one). |
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I wont tell anyone to jump or switch ships, everyone gets to decide who and why they ship a certain couple, but I can at least write what I like or dont like about a certain couple or a certain person and THEREFORE I use a comparions to Addie or Addie and Pete. Its not like I want to have everyone to like Addie or just talk about Addison, it was purely for comparing purposes.
anyway I think there are nicer way to talk to each other. its a discussion and nothing we say should be that personal. Its a tv show, we shouldnt forget that everyone but talking about guts, I dont feel it with Violet and Pete. Never did. Never will and trust me I have tried. I have tried hard. I have nothing against violet (well at least I didnt have in season 2) and I have nothing against Pete.. but I just cant see them together and my gut is telling me that too anyway. I was talking more about Violet getting proffessional help and what decisions she made. ITs her thread so, then lets talk about that then __________________
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I don't think anyone is in here trying to convince people of who they should and shouldn't ship. There's no need to get personal in here. Everyone has a right to their own opinion right? And I don't think there's anything wrong with using comparisons to make a point.
And yes I've never felt any spark with Pete and Violet either, not since the very beginning. And so true, this is about Violet and I don't really understand why she was off taking a long vacation when she's been avoiding her problems as it is. Some professional help would be much better for her then running away. __________________
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I agree, I would love to see her get some professional help. Let's hope that is in the cards.
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Blaming Violet for not been there for Pete or her son, it’s cruel and also it's unrealistic to think that a couple of months of madness can cure something serious as PTSD, which sometimes requires years of therapy. So as long as Violet receives professional help with her consent or not, I’m happy! Quote:
IMO if Pete cannot understand that Violet is ill or he didn’t know how to help her and in the meantime he fall in love with Addison or someone else, it’s ok for me, because clearly he didn’t love Violet as much as I thought and I'm done with this ship! I hope Violet could find someone who love her so much to give her time and space she need and help her to heal for as long as she need, someone who will be there for her even when/if she pushes him away! Last edited by V_Elspeth; 03-16-2010 at 08:29 AM |
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Popping in here, as I feel it's the safest place on this board to say how much I am looking forward to see Violet come back. I know I'm one of few, but I really, really miss her. And I really hope something good will happen to her. I'm curious whether Shonda will give us an explanation on what happened to her while she was away, and that she doesn't just play the zen card like she did with Cooper and leave everything else unexplained.
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I also really really miss her bb and I really really hope she'll be back soon and shiny, happy smile on her face and soul, for a change. We want old Violet back!!
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shall we keep the faith okay? 3 weeks is too much [3 weeks of no airing??? what a bummer!!!]
she needs to be a mom, Lucas needs her, and now Addie knows Pete loves Violet and only Violet, so scenario should be easy for her to find her way to be best version of herself!! come on she can do that!!! __________________
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On the bright side, after those three weeks there will be no more weeks until after the season finale... I'm SO keeping faith. I was doing that even before the four most WONDERFUL words left Pete's lips last week
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no one mentioned how radiant and beautiful she looked in 6x19????
looked like a shinny star knocked at the door __________________
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Really hope Violet was actually getting help and not just on vaca having a party. If she was actually getting help, Pete needs to call her doctor and make sure she is ok and will not be a harm to Lucas. Then, she should only be allowed supervised visits for a while to make sure she really is stable. She may have gotten help, but she could have a relapse and snap and hurt Lucas. Right now Violet is nothing but a stranger to Lucas.
She should be his mother and bond with him. However, It would be really unrealistic to show her jump right into motherhood like nothing ever happened. Not to mention, very irresponsible of the show __________________
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